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chepo1966 ( new member #75720) posted at 5:08 PM on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021

inkarnate

Sometimes, I think that we are your enemies, or every advice that is given to you and it is not according to what you want, or wish, you get upset, or you get angry

Just so you know, all of you who are here, have lived, what you are living and even really worse things, come to the point, of wanting to take their life, I do not say that it is your case, but yours is more common,

Your pride does not allow you to see more of the horizon, when you are given advice, we are more than clear that not all advice should be carried out, but if you meditate on it, and try to put yourself in your constellation,

You are a 40-year-old man, for or when you are no longer a child, you should be clear, or good and bad, what you really want from your life in the future, those of us who are here are only trying to help you, and avoid, that suffer frustrations, that most suffered,

Really here, even if you doubt it, your door hurts us, you have to remove that pride, if in the end, if you think about it, we will never see each other, hehe, or I'm wrong,

I would advise you, if you are in IC, and do not participate in marriage counseling, work on yourself first, do not wear yourself out on one thing, where only you are working, she still has contact with them, the fact that she does not participate in the gym, Whether or not I will attend, it does not mean, that they do not get together (and even if it bothers you and you give me your ironies,) that they are still having sex, your wife does not respect your limits, she is doing what she wants, yes einkarnitso for You are worthy, okay, and if that makes you feel like your marriage is improving, good for you.

Worry about working on yourself, you need it, you are a great man, you are only going through bad times, I know that with the help of God, you can overcome it, and you will do the best for your life, do not continue in something that is hurting you , it would be very good for you to get away from her for a while, and worry about your well-being, mental or physical fool,

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DanielJK ( member #75654) posted at 12:41 PM on Thursday, May 6th, 2021

What I would say about the advice here...you can take it or leave it...but...

I've seen lots of people say "I wish I listened to the elders here on SI when I got here."

I'm raising my hand over here.

I should have listened.

What I would also say about your situation. The longer you allow her to be in contact, the more she is calculating her decision...the more time she has to become more and more enamored with AP...the more time she can chew on her decision to stay or not stay with you...you are in limbo whether you like it or not. She is deciding whether you are plan A or plan B and you are giving her time and space to make that decision.

Take control of your situation.

[This message edited by DanielJK at 6:42 AM, May 6th (Thursday)]

BH 51
STBXWW 53
2 daughters, 14 and 16
Filed for divorce 12/23/2020

After a year of hell I finally moved out (5/26/2021).
Divorce still pending.

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beb252 ( member #78948) posted at 3:30 AM on Tuesday, June 22nd, 2021

Any update?
What happened to your WW and AP?

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