So, im just posting my story because im having a hard time right now because we are going to divorce.
We don't have kids together, but we both have ones from past relationships, Our kids are so bonded, its sad :(
We still had issues, and things were going decent. And then AP started to work with WW again. For some reason, that changed her. It was like the second that she found out, she stopped working on the relationship.
About 7 weeks ago, she deleted some text with the AP. A friend of hers brought some drinks, and the friend wanted the co-worker AP to come drink down with them.
We had a huge fight about it, she eventually agreed that she was wrong, and agreed to stop drinking at work. But that destroyed my trust. I almost left that night. And I wanted to work on our trust and rebuild our relationship.
For some reason she is resistant to that, so after she came home late without calling me, I left.
Man this hurts and sucks. The cheating, I can get over that, and rebuild our trust. Its taken me a bit over 1yr to get to a point where I could start to repair our relationship, and then this happened.
I moved out for a bit to decompress a bit.
I really miss her, but I have also been able to now figure out that if she does not want to work on re-building, then there is nothing I can do about it.
Neither one of us wants to separate, just, I cant stay in a relationship where the trust is that gone, and we are not working on rebuilding it.
I don't see this working out :/