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Fantastic!!!!

Good job!!

Okay, I'm doing this from memory and on my phone, so you may need to tell me what you are seeing.

I'm assuming he has an iPhone.

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Preparation

1) Install iTunes on your computer

2) Make sure you know his phone's passcode

3) If you have the email and password for his iCloud account, that gives you more to search through, and he may not have been savvy enough to delete from there.

4) If he ever backed his phone up you can use Fonelab to go through those backups.

5) When you have his phone in hand, send a couple of texts to your phone:"Delete Tesst 1", "Delete Test 2".

Reply to those texts. Then delete those test texts, both the ones you sent and the ones you received.

Also take a couple of throwaway pictures and delete those as well.

The test will serve to verify whether or not you can recover anything from his phone.

Recovery

1)Make sure iTunes is installed but not actively running.

2) Start Fonelab.

3) Connect the phone to the computer

4) On the phone itself there may be an alert asking you to to "trust this computer". Trust it.

5) Fonelab should display a screen with 3 options:

A: Recover from iOS Device

B: Recover from iTunes Backup File

C: Recover from iCloud Backup File

6) Click on "Recover from iOS Device"

7) At this point I think you will see a screen asking you what types of files and information you want to recover. Select everything and proceed.

8) Then it will take a while to scan the phone. It is possible to see what can be recovered as it scans, but it also might crash the process, so it is best to be patient and let the process finish.

9) Once scanning is done you can click on the various data types: texts, images, videos etc. to see what you find.

Items that are deleted and can be recovered will be in red, I think.

10) At this point you can select what you want to recover and save it to your computer.

Some people prefer to recover only the deleted stuff, I recommend you do two saves: first recover any deleted information, then second recover everything on the phone.

You may need a lot of space on your computer to do this.

After you run the on-phone recovery, I suggest you then do the iCloud backup, and then after that run through any iTunes backups he might have.

Take your time to look through the backups and also any information ftom the whole-phone backup, like email etc.

Cheaters can be very overconfident and sloppy.

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I strongly suggest that you also take this opportunity to install some Spyware on his phone like mspy, webwatcher, ikeymonitor, spyzie, cocospy etc.

Because when you are getting ready to confront and the shit is going to hit the fan, it's likely your husband will connect with his cheating partners to alert them and coordinate stories.

I would also be recording any communications you have with people like your skank sister-in-law.