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New Beginnings :
I’m doing a solo adventure!

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 Talon2019 (original poster member #70881) posted at 6:14 AM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2019

I’m sooooo excited tonight! I have been journaling about my hopes and dreams, and adventures I want to go on by myself... and something I’ve always wanted to do but somehow couldn’t bring myself to do... is a hot air balloon ride. Well, tonight, I BOOKED it! Turns out, I needed someone to push me... and I was that someone all along. I was just lost in an emotionally abusive relationship with a serial cheater. Got rid of the toxicity, and revealed that I am my own best cheerleader!

This is going to be empowering, liberating, and the experience of a lifetime! Can’t wait!

Me: BW 37
Him: XWH 37
Married 2006
D-Day 6/7/2019, trickle-truth for 2 weeks revealed serial cheating dating back to before marriage.
Kicked out WH 6/27/19
Divorce (freedom) date: 12/31/19

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 7:06 AM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2019

Good for you, I hope you have a fantastic time!

Warning: Once you get your first solo trip/event successfully conquered, you will find yourself with a strong desire to do more and more!

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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bookworm19 ( member #54871) posted at 9:37 AM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2019

So happy for you! And as Phoenix says, it's addictive! You are the boss of your destiny

English is not my language, sorry for mistakes and funny words...

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WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 1:16 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2019

That sound like so much fun!!

Look for solo women travelers groups on social media (Don't want to break the rules by sharing specific names). I've joined a couple. Incredible to see and connect with women all over the world being fearless as well.

I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural

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nothisfriend ( member #53171) posted at 2:16 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2019

That sounds really awesome! Enjoy and report back.

Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23

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AbandonedGuy ( member #66456) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2019

Congrats Talon! Exactly the type of stuff we should all be doing. I'm going skydiving next month, first time, wanted to for years. If we cross paths up in the sky, I'll be sure to wave

EmancipatedFella, formerly AbandonedGuy

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