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Hey I just have a quick question does anybody here think that there's any way a WW could spend at least a dozen nights in a hotel room with another man and never have sex

NOT A CHANCE! Sorry.

I'm sorry nothing about that sounds right to me. I wouldn't expect any man and woman, even if neither had ever been wayward to spend 2 weeks in a hotel room without having sex. I'm brand new here and I let a lot of stuff slide with my WH and had 110% trust in him with his friend that turned out to be the OW, but even that I wouldn't have believed.

I do think it is possible. I could spend a dozen nights in a hotel room with a man I found totally repugnant and not have sex with him. I imagine that is not the scenario, though.

More details needed before I make any judgments.

You know the answer to that. We all do.

Was he a eunech? Sorry, sarcasm got the best of me.

Gently, Backy19, no.

I am SO sorry you find yourself here.

Sending strength.

You refer to your spouse as a WW. So does this mean she is only admitting to an emotional affair but no sex? Was the person in the room with her the man she admits to having an affair with?

If that is the case, there is zero percent chance that no sex happened.

Nope, not a chance.

My WH tried to convince me on DDay 1 that he spent two hours at the ow’s house watching tv and holding hands. On DDay 2 it came to light he actually spent the whole day with her (yes previously he only went there for two hours) and they had sex like rabbits.

I didn’t believe the two hours, let alone whole nights, several nights in a hotel room.

One more thing: it is safe to assume that every time they have been on their own in a non public space they had sex. Mine did, including every time they went in the car for a drive to “talk”.

Is it physically possible? Sure.

Is it likely? No way.

Even organizations that are too cheap to pay for individual hotel rooms NEVER require that opposite genders double-up.

Cheaters lie a lot. I mean a lot.

You know the answer. That’s a lot of times to be in a hotel as well. Sorry dude.

Thx all I no the answer it honestly in weird way makes me giggle a bit that any WS would expect u to believe that...yes it was with her friend who was married and they were helping each other work on their marriage together...lol no shit I can't make this up

Live and learn I guess

Is she admitting to any inappropriate behaviour at all with him? EA? Kissing? Anything? Is she just denying sex?

Sorry man.

I'm assuming his wife was never told.

Cheaters expect you to help hide their affairs

It is such a long story but I woke up one morning and got the old I love you but I'm not in love with you I think we need a break as she hands me her wedding rings... It was going on for about six months before I found out and have been together many nights well I was off fishing or whatever... So yeah she's admitting to an emotional affair but that's it... She was moving on with him and then something happened... we've been back together for a very long time and are friends...but as a married couple we don't do many married things or what I think a married couple should do... so I guess we have reconciled but never has the truth come out life just goes on... and yes the other man has since divorced his wife cuz he got caught sending emails to my wife

Backy, if you both have settled in as "friends" I see why she would feel no need to bother facing the truth of things.

No I get it...i totally have enabled her... As you people are aware no matter where you are in your reconciliation you do need honesty... And obviously if I'm here not being told the truth still bothers me and that's no way to live friends or not

Well I used to travel with a male friend and share a room. We never had sex.

But he was 100% gay.

But then again I'm sure you never handed your wedding rings over to your husband because this is the guy you had an affair with weather EA or not