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IDeserveMore (original poster member #40460) posted at 1:56 AM on Thursday, October 15th, 2015
Sometimes I feel like not liking fantasy limits my choices so much. I've just never been into it.
I do like thrillers but not the series. I like stand alone ones and not cop oriented.
Do you remember anything you just loved? Loved the writing and the story and didn't want it to end?
Part of my new beginnings is to read. My husband felt like reading was only for once one has accomplished much and has engaged in physical activity. He didn't believe in reading in the daytime, especially is the weather is good.
I want get back to my old self when reading was a huge part of who I was.
Now I just want something terrific to read.
Me 54, WH 57, 25yo DD, 23yo DS. DD#1 1998 followed by 1 year of blatant denialDD#2 2004 followed by 6 YEARS OF TT. Do I win for the longest TT on this site? Divorced and so very happy!
Bebecat ( member #49491) posted at 1:39 PM on Thursday, October 15th, 2015
Do you like historical mystery fiction? I just finished a series by Charles Todd about a detective inspector in England after World War I, which was fascintating and well-written. The detective has been in the war and has sysmptoms of PTSD but he is very intelligent and the crimes are complex and difficult to figure out. The author has two series, one is based on the male detective and another based on a female investigator.
Also, I enjoyed some of the Georgette Heyer historical fiction. Some are mysteries and I liked most of those, not crazy about the romance ones. They are much lighter than above series. Her mysteries are "stand alone" books, rather than a series.
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Valentinessucks ( member #46486) posted at 4:08 PM on Friday, October 16th, 2015
Always loved Dick Francis.
Me: BS, 52 Him: WS, 68
Married 30 yrs; DDay E/A, 5/2012
2nd DDay, again E/A, broke NC 2/2014 Reconciling.
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 6:56 PM on Friday, October 16th, 2015
If you are intrigued by ancient Egypt at all then I will give my standard recommendation for my favorite book EVER (and I've read a lot):
River God, by Wilbur Smith
It is technically part of a series but you can easily read it as a stand alone. I do enjoy the "sequel" of sorts, called The Seventh Scroll, which involves some modern day archeologists pursuing events that took place in the first book. There are other books in the series but I didn't like them nearly as much.
Wilbur Smith writes with a lot of vivid detail so the story feels very alive on the page. I can picture the people and places in his books as thought I'd seen them in a 3-D movie. Terrific historical fiction. If you decide to check it out, enjoy!
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:58 AM on Saturday, October 17th, 2015
Philippa Gregory on the wars of the roses/cousins war: https://www.goodreads.com/series/55424-the-cousins-war.
Now I know why I can't get the wars straight - every family had at least one Henry, Edward, Richard, Elizabeth....
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
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Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 4:56 PM on Saturday, October 17th, 2015
I enjoy Philippa Gregory's books, too. I loved the Wolf Hall books.
Also loved The Goddess of Buttercups and Daisies (Martin Millar) - most folks classify it as a light, comic read, but if you know a bit about Classical Greece, it has a very serious and poignant undertone. For me, it was about making ethical/moral choices, and the search for happiness. The themes of the Ancient Greek philosophers.
regretandshame ( member #48463) posted at 11:08 PM on Saturday, October 17th, 2015
There is a few good books I read lately. Not sure if they are your type of books but I read. They are all general fiction
The Secrets We Kept by Lily Velez
Shatterproof by Rianne Moss (There is some grammar errors, but the story it's self very gripping)
The Lie Of You by Jane Lythell
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XBf/OM: 33
DD: 9 DS 22m 12 weeks pregnant
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D-Day: August 13 2013
Reconciled: October 2013
Bought A House: April 2015
Getting Married: November 7 2015
lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 1:37 AM on Monday, October 19th, 2015
Really good and really long historical fiction - Margaret George I read the Autobiography of Henry VIII in high school; she was writing about the Tudors before they became hip. I also really liked her Memoirs of Cleopatra and her Mary, Queen of Scotland.
I really liked Colleen McCullough's Song of Troy. She wrote The Thornbirds, and if you haven't read it, it is worth the read.
I like PD James. Not historical, really, but realistic mysteries that are very smart.
Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.
mendingme ( member #47403) posted at 2:51 PM on Monday, October 19th, 2015
I always recommend Outlander by Diana Gabladon. It is the first in a series and once I started it I didn't come up for air until I was done
Me:BS, 46
Him: WH, 50
DDay: 10/31/14 2 1/2 year affair
Married 24 years, 3 Awesome kids
Trying to reconcile
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 4:59 AM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2015
Historical Fiction
All books by Edward Rutherfurd. He weaves fictional families whose lives intertwine over the course of centuries while writing the history of their country/city.
Sarum
Russka
London
The Forest
Ireland
New York
Paris
The Princes of Ireland
The Rebels of Ireland
Together 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
ncharge ( member #42365) posted at 4:05 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2015
I second that Edward Rutherford recommendation! His books consume me.
It is not a mystery, but "The Pillars of the Earth" was a wonderful book about building a cathedral in the middle ages and the politics and people's lives, etc. I re-read that every few years.
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 5:08 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2015
The Moor's Account was pretty good, I just finished it.
helpme03 ( member #46083) posted at 8:23 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2015
The Great Train Robbery by Crichton is a good read.
If you'd be willing to read non-fiction that reads like fiction, there's In Cold Blood by Truman Capote and Nicholas and Alexandra by Robert Massie. I'm sure you have at least heard of the former, and the latter is much more interesting that it sounds if you're not into history. I've recommended it to a wide array of people who all enjoyed it.
Met/ In relationship 9 years
Married 7 years
BH 42-me
WW 40
2 kids, 1 each from previous marriage (none together)
Dday Dec 25 2014
In MC, Reconciled
Hari ( member #49744) posted at 12:01 PM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2015
The Meaning of Night - Michael Cox
Victorian England - A story of betrayal and treachery, of death and delusion, of ruthless obsession and ambition.
The Meaning of Night" is presented as a genuine narrative from the mid-19thC, complete with footnotes from a modern-day Cambridge professor. I found the footnotes sufficient to maintain the idea that this is "real" but not distracting.
This is a story full of memorable characters and glorious descriptions, a gripping tale very well told. I've read it twice now and enjoyed it both times.
Me BS age 58
Him WH age 56
Affairs since 1994
LTA = 5
ONS = Double figures.
Has admitted to living a 'Secret life'.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:40 PM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2015
The Hangmans daughter is a great series, I think there are 5 of them now.
They are about a Hangman, and his life, and family. Little did I know that Hangmen were also medicine men of sorts.
The books always have a mystery of one sort or another, and the Hangman, and his daughter, and her dandy dr husband solve them.
They are quite good.
Author is : Oliver Potszch
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 2:53 AM on Monday, November 2nd, 2015
The Invisible Bridge by Julie Orringer
Europe from 1937 through ww2, especially in Paris and Budapest. Extraordinary. One of the best books I've ever read. Great characters. Real struggles. Both dark and inspiring. True historical fiction.
BS, 63 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 yearsThe journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
Watergoblet ( member #42819) posted at 8:41 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2015
I enjoy the books of M.M.Kaye. Each is stand alone and they are light mystery/romance books set in the post WW2 era. They are pretty historically correct since they were actually written during that time. Very similar in tone to Mary Stewart books. These are older books and may even be out of print. If so, I am sorry, but you might find them in a used book store.
BW mid 60s
WH mid 60s
44 years married
first suspicion early 80s
first separation 2002
DD#? 2008 the last chance he gets
mostly recovered
Widower ( member #50114) posted at 3:26 PM on Saturday, November 28th, 2015
The best researched historical fiction I have ever read are the Flashman books by George McDonnald Fraser.
Written in the first person, the books follow the career of an unprincipled cowardly cad through the course of many major events of the 1840s onward. Major events covered with impeccable research include, The Charge of the Light Brigade, John Brown's raid on Harper's Ferry, the Indian Mutiny, Custer's last stand at Little Bighorn, the Taiping Rebellion and the destruction of the Summer Palace.
The research was so well done, and the attitudes of the 19th century so vividly portrayed that many reviewers thought that the books were authentic memoirs from a real person.
Not only is the universe stranger than we imagine, it is stranger than we can imagine.
The same applies to a woman's mind.
redsox13 ( member #43391) posted at 6:55 PM on Monday, December 7th, 2015
It's old, but Lincoln by Gore Vidal. Another good Vidal book is Creation.
I Claudius is a good read about ancient Rome.
Pillars of the Earth by Ken Follett is good too.
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fWW - 43
Simply getting better.
jayleen100515 ( member #50752) posted at 12:50 AM on Tuesday, December 15th, 2015
Have you read Fall of Giants by Ken Follett? I am on book two in the series (Winter of the World), and it is amazing!
Me: BW Him: WH
M 19 years, 2 kids - 12 and 14
DDay: Oct 5, 2015 EA/PA for 4 mths
A was already over for 5 mths when I found out
Not sure what we're doing. WH wants it, but I'm not ready to R.
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