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leesi4321 ( member #65538) posted at 12:08 AM on Monday, July 23rd, 2018
How do you differentiate between falling into codependent patterns with a WS and giving them a chance to earn forgiveness on the path to reconciliation? It’s only been one month since D-Day for me. He brought the AP into our home under the pretense of a nanny. I learned they had an EA, and three weeks later he confessed to PA with her and three other PAs in the past. He is showing remorse, has cut off contact and says he’s serious about the M. However, this revelation has brought up some serious issues he needs to deal with including attachment disorder and possible SA. He is willing to work through these in IC and MC, but I also know I can’t fix him. Any insight appreciated in how to proceed, signs to look for, how to protect myself, etc.
BS (36,F), Divorced and thriving
D-Day 6/24/18
sewardak ( member #50617) posted at 12:12 PM on Monday, July 23rd, 2018
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 8:03 PM on Tuesday, September 4th, 2018
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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