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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 5:15 PM on Saturday, May 8th, 2010

posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
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flowermom ( member #23950) posted at 8:57 PM on Saturday, May 8th, 2010

Wish this was requires reading for newbies!!!! Thanks!!!

Me-BS WHSA, 3 wonderful kids, all grown.
Denial is not just a river in Egypt

posts: 570   ·   registered: May. 10th, 2009   ·   location: South
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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 9:30 AM on Saturday, May 15th, 2010

Bumpage

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 4587350
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woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 8:17 PM on Monday, May 17th, 2010

bumping for the new hurting ones.

In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

posts: 8027   ·   registered: Mar. 7th, 2008   ·   location: SoCal
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lilac18 ( member #25180) posted at 9:50 PM on Monday, May 17th, 2010

bump

Me/BW 45
WH 35

DDay 08/09/09
Reconciled

"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Albert Einstein

posts: 452   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Texas
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SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 2:32 AM on Tuesday, May 18th, 2010

bump for newbies

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
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SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 1:43 AM on Thursday, May 20th, 2010

bump

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
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justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 1:12 AM on Sunday, May 23rd, 2010

bump

In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell

posts: 432   ·   registered: Feb. 26th, 2007   ·   location: Swimming towards inner peace
id 4598471
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unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 1:06 AM on Tuesday, May 25th, 2010

bump

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 1:17 AM on Tuesday, May 25th, 2010

How I wish this was here when I first signed up.

Great Job!

~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

posts: 26209   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2005
id 4601854
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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 9:48 PM on Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

bump

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
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cass ( member #24261) posted at 7:13 PM on Sunday, May 30th, 2010

bump

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

posts: 5184   ·   registered: Jun. 4th, 2009   ·   location: Scotland
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AkKat22 ( member #28598) posted at 5:54 AM on Monday, May 31st, 2010

Thank you, I wish I had the guts to come here a year ago!

Me: BS 46
FWH: 42
D-day: EA/PA 19 June 09
5 Children
M: 20 years
Separated

posts: 83   ·   registered: May. 25th, 2010   ·   location: North
id 4612474
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Karma62 ( member #23320) posted at 1:53 AM on Tuesday, June 1st, 2010

Thanks SerJR

We are in R... but 1.5 yrs. out is still new to me.

Me: BS 48
Him: FWH 64
Married 19
D-Day # 1 31-10-07 EA?? (Denied!)
D-Day # 2 17-12-08 Full PA both years same OW
OW 37S Neighbour (NC)
Working on R with hope
"You have been Weighed, Measured and you have been Found wanting" -

posts: 275   ·   registered: Mar. 20th, 2009   ·   location: Canada
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Lotsa ( member #28078) posted at 5:40 AM on Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010

Bump

posts: 881   ·   registered: Mar. 29th, 2010
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ThriveNotSurvive ( member #22093) posted at 8:22 AM on Sunday, June 6th, 2010

bump

Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie

Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.

posts: 1582   ·   registered: Dec. 18th, 2008   ·   location: Las Vegas
id 4623903
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SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 8:39 PM on Tuesday, June 8th, 2010

bumped for ITSNOTMY FAULT

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
id 4627962
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sharonons ( member #24462) posted at 8:53 PM on Tuesday, June 8th, 2010

Thanks for bumping this too. I needed to see this again.

posts: 571   ·   registered: Jun. 17th, 2009   ·   location: NY
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whatdoto ( member #28555) posted at 9:09 PM on Tuesday, June 8th, 2010

Thanks for bumping...I really needed to read this again.

"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

posts: 1187   ·   registered: May. 18th, 2010   ·   location: Texas
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FindingNolia ( member #28518) posted at 10:14 PM on Tuesday, June 8th, 2010

tag

married 18 years
separated 7/2010
divorced 11/2011

posts: 200   ·   registered: May. 13th, 2010
id 4628135
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