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SI Staff (original poster moderator #10) posted at 12:08 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
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madseason ( member #13224) posted at 12:47 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Thanks for the new forum!!
Lose my breath in waves
Knowing that every crash is bleeding the hourglass
And taking the stride
From all our lives
*Somewhere, far away from here, I saw stars. Stars that I could reach.*
click4it ( member #209) posted at 12:50 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Two boys: 20 and 17
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Snapdragon ( member #4286) posted at 12:52 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Thank you for this new forum!!
Can you please give specific instructions on how to request a topic? (who to send a PM to, etc.)
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Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink
kdny ( member #760) posted at 1:03 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
You can PM SI Staff by clicking on the two happy faces in the post above.
Whether we remain ash or become phoenix is up to us.
Sometimes the fine line between a nervous breakdown and knowing things will be okay is a pair of furry pants~unfound
DigDug ( member #10117) posted at 1:06 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Thanks a lot for doing this!
A BS who is divorced after four years of giving it my best.
Love is an electric blanket with somebody else in control of the switch. ~ Cathy Carlyle
just_s ( member #13240) posted at 1:19 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
pebbles ( member #13870) posted at 1:28 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
This former rock has been blasted into a mound of pebbles.
cjonesjag ( member #10617) posted at 1:34 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Thanks for this, and thanks for all you do...Much appreciated..
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Him(WTFH):51 Married: 05/26/2002
DD#1: 09/2005 (EA) DD#2: 09/2006
Mini-DDays: Many. Mostly online
It's not what you've got, it's what you give.
It ain't the life you choose, it's the life you live
strike2 ( member #12398) posted at 1:40 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Me: FWS (30)
Her: FBS (30)
Children: 2: boy and girl
Dday#1 Oct 05
Dday#2 Sept 06
Working on R together
"life is short.. don't fuck it up"
Basic_Guy ( member #4396) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Very nice idea. I see you have made several changes recently.
This should save a lot of lost hurting souls. In the past there were so many cries for help that were so close to the other cries that you could only answer some of them, and some of them went unanswered... Now you have a central location to reach out for the ones trying to catch someones attention.
This is a very good idea.
Courage does not always come with blinding flashes of light....sometimes you only notice it after it passes...
My patron saint is a-fighting with a ghost
He's always off somewhere when I need him most.
forgivenotforget ( member #11053) posted at 1:52 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
I was wondering if you considered the topic of double betrayal. This is especially painful when you discover that the OP that a WS engaged in the A with is not only someone you know, but many times a close friend or family member. This situation has so many levels and just reading some of the responses that were posted in general makes me think there might be a need for this. Thanks again for your constant support and continued commitment to all of us here at SI.
D-day - 12/23/05 LTA - 8 years.
"Love's a matter of trust and I just want to believe in us." M McBride
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 1:54 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Please PM the SI Staff for any thread requests.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
FreedomRoad ( member #13961) posted at 1:59 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
It feels like Christmas all over again! Thank you MH, DS and all the SI Staff
Conduct your blooming in the noise and the whip of the whirlwind - Gwendolyn Brooks
Maia ( member #8268) posted at 2:12 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
muah muah muah ...thank you!!!!!!
and tell MH that the new bold and italic and quote buttons are AWESOME and wonderful and nifty and he is just... a total hero!!!
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18
rainedon ( member #12230) posted at 3:01 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
YEA!!! This is so super-cool. I know it doesn't take much to get me all excited and happy, but this really did it!!! Thanks!
"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray
MUSICMAN ( member #2728) posted at 4:15 AM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Lot of water under the bridge...lot of other stuff too....Bob Dylan
incrisis ( member #12945) posted at 5:11 PM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Truly, truly, truly appreciate this. Thank you. And Pax.
BW: 40 (34 on DDay)
WH: 39 (33 on Dday, LTA and PAs)
M: 11 years, together 14, at time of S
D-ing! (very slowly)
drowninginsorrow ( member #4545) posted at 5:15 PM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
what a great forum
thank you...you guys have really been working especially hard lately... sure appreciate all the new stuff
Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics
HurtinCutie ( member #7798) posted at 5:59 PM on Tuesday, April 3rd, 2007
Seriously, where have i been?? I just saw this here now. When was it posted??
TY for this thread Mods!!! Hugs!
That's the thing about needs. Sometimes when you get them met, you don't need them anymore.
Can you get to your future if your past is present?
~Carrie Bradshaw Sex and the City
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