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Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 2:49 PM on Wednesday, October 27th, 2010

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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Proview ( member #24215) posted at 11:15 AM on Thursday, October 28th, 2010

Thanks Maia!

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 6:27 PM on Saturday, October 30th, 2010

you're welcome, Pro. bumping by request. hope it helps

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 1:10 PM on Friday, December 10th, 2010

Bumping for the newbies and even as a re-read for the older ones too ... cough cough ..

Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

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Lost68 ( member #27515) posted at 12:55 AM on Wednesday, January 5th, 2011

Bump

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HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 3:38 PM on Thursday, March 10th, 2011

It was time to bump this back to the front where it might be read again and the wisdom in it shared once more. BUMP!

Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

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leftoolate ( member #22658) posted at 2:49 PM on Friday, March 11th, 2011

bump for Merlin.

~L.

If you came this far, you're looking for something. - Jrazz

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rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 4:36 PM on Friday, March 11th, 2011

I really needed this. Thanks to whoever bumped it!

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 3:52 PM on Sunday, March 13th, 2011

rachel...we've been there.

take one day at a time.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 6:33 PM on Friday, April 8th, 2011

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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jdt1973 ( member #31750) posted at 8:08 PM on Friday, April 8th, 2011

That was awesome. Thanks for this post!

After all is said and done, just shut the hell up.
WH(me) 38
BS 38
Togethher 21 years, married 19
5 kids - 17,15,12,10,2
DD#1 4/2001 - EA/PA
DD#2 10/2009 - EA/PA
DD#3 1/4/2011 - EA/PA same AP as DD#2
R - trying hard

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Clarrissa ( member #21886) posted at 1:19 PM on Sunday, May 8th, 2011

bumping for any newbies.

BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.

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sunnyrain ( member #30164) posted at 1:56 PM on Sunday, May 8th, 2011

thank you maia (and clarrissa). i've seen this thread "bumped" many times but never actually read it.

this morning, i read it.

"I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne."

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 6:26 AM on Thursday, May 12th, 2011

You are welcome sunny.

Did it help or are you still in quicksand?

I am praying for you.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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sunnyrain ( member #30164) posted at 2:30 PM on Thursday, May 12th, 2011

hi maia! thanks for the prayers... much appreciated.

re did your thread help?-- most definitely.

got this little gem from another member which has also helped:

i am directly responsible for the choices i make. the choices i make affect the people i love and those around me. it is my responsiblity alone to make the right choices. i will make the right choices today.

re still in quicksand?-- well, like your quote says: uncomfortable is not the same thing as unable.

ty, sunny

"I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne."

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 3:41 PM on Thursday, May 12th, 2011

keep a notebook of the Truth you get daily, it'll help.

good, good. glad to hear you're plugging away.

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 1:52 PM on Saturday, July 9th, 2011

Bump

She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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whatnow2011 ( member #32373) posted at 9:21 PM on Saturday, July 9th, 2011

uncomfortable is not the same thing as unable

I like this.

Thanks for all the bumps.

Grateful for every day I am given the opportunity to show ConfusedBH how important he is to me.
Me: WW (heartless, selfish & boundaryless) Him: BH (ConfusedBH)
Married 20; together 24
DDay: February 2011
Working on R

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 Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 12:36 PM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2011

The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18

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Sandcrab ( member #10067) posted at 10:21 PM on Monday, September 5th, 2011

I ♥ LostJim

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