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Reconciliation :
What was AP left believing?

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BreakingBad ( member #75779) posted at 4:05 AM on Friday, May 12th, 2023

The longterm AP was left believing:

He broke it off with her on his own (months before I found out) and he never looked back. This is confirmed through 2 FB posts on her own account (that I found much later) bemoaning her loss of a "friend who never talks to her anymore" and other BS about how bewildered she was by this. I know she was referring to my fWH, because, in one of the posts, she wishes her "friend" a happy birthday, and it's posted on my H's b-day. look

Unfortunately, before I found these posts on FB, I reached out to this AP to try to get some truth (to confirm what WH had told me), and she lied to me and told me they were just friends and she's very easy to confide in, etc
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I let the matter drop and didn't challenge her version, even though my WH had told me MUCH more. So, I guess she was left thinking I believed her lies. That bothers me when I think about it, but I vacillate between wanting to publicly embarrass her if I ever run into her and being assured that she is her own worst karma.

"...lately it's not hurtin' like it did before. Maybe I am learning how to love me more."[Credit to Sam Smith]

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ShockedAndShattered ( member #79685) posted at 12:30 AM on Friday, May 19th, 2023

I struggle with this. When I discovered the messages, I responded to them and they got spooked, I think and blocked his account and mine. That was almost 2 years ago. He never spoke to any of them again because obviously, so he wasn't the one who ended things. I kind wish he had. I wish they heard from him.

I often wonder if they're out there living their pathetic lives thinking that he would still be talking to them if it wasn't for me.

BS(me):42 WH:43DDay 1- 9/11/21 EA 5+ yrs & lies TTDDay 2- 9/23/21 EA 2+ years & lies TTDDay 3- 10/17/21 EAs 1.5 yrs/5+ yrs TTDDay 4- 4/11/22 Conf PA w/1 EADDay 5- 8/2/22 Failed PolyDDay 6- 8/7/22 Whatever...

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heartbrokeninaz ( member #40779) posted at 4:48 AM on Monday, May 22nd, 2023

[This message edited by heartbrokeninaz at 4:52 AM, Monday, May 22nd]

BW 50(me)WH 50DDay 1 07/31/13 ONS with whorenado DDay 2 05/09/14 texts to another woman (not returned)Dday 3 06 15/18 texting to meetup with a mutual friend not reciprocated. I live a real life fairy tale.

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heartbrokeninaz ( member #40779) posted at 4:51 AM on Monday, May 22nd, 2023

My WH was dumped the minute I found out. The OW said maybe we shouldnt see each other anymore. He never contacted her again. Just lied to me for another month. I think it would have been better for me if he would have told her it was a bad decision. She was a mutual friend. Some friend! But she didnt care and never will care, it was just a booty call. She will never feel bad. She was just looking for sex. I get my satisfaction by knowing she is still single and childless at 43 and will probably always will be! Just a rotten person. It wasnt her first time being a whore.

BW 50(me)WH 50DDay 1 07/31/13 ONS with whorenado DDay 2 05/09/14 texts to another woman (not returned)Dday 3 06 15/18 texting to meetup with a mutual friend not reciprocated. I live a real life fairy tale.

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