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SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 11:27 PM on Wednesday, June 9th, 2010

bumped for newbies . . .

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 7:26 PM on Thursday, June 10th, 2010

bump.

posts: 11269   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 2:03 PM on Friday, June 11th, 2010

Bummped for ItIsNotMyFault . . .

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:30 PM on Monday, June 14th, 2010

bumpity

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 4:41 AM on Saturday, June 19th, 2010

Bumped for the bumpy riders.

In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell

posts: 432   ·   registered: Feb. 26th, 2007   ·   location: Swimming towards inner peace
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confused13 ( member #28819) posted at 3:38 AM on Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

Thanks to all who bumped this up for all us newbies.....

BS-me-30
WH-him-36
Dday-4/30/2010 Almost Sexual
Married-5years
Together-almost 14 years.
Best Friends- 18 years
Kids-daughter 17-his 1st marriage
son-12 1/2-ours
R-dont know
S-8/25/10 mutual

Marriage is not a noun; it's a verb.

posts: 101   ·   registered: Jun. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Georgia
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:29 AM on Friday, June 25th, 2010

bump.

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justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 7:37 PM on Saturday, June 26th, 2010

In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell

posts: 432   ·   registered: Feb. 26th, 2007   ·   location: Swimming towards inner peace
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 7:20 PM on Monday, June 28th, 2010

bumping

posts: 11269   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 1:48 AM on Friday, July 2nd, 2010

bumping again.

posts: 11269   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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lostsuol ( member #13706) posted at 10:17 PM on Monday, July 5th, 2010

cuz I needed a reminder...

Still a struggle...

posts: 815   ·   registered: Feb. 20th, 2007   ·   location: Canada
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unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 4:31 AM on Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

For the new folks. So sorry you needed us.

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 9:34 PM on Thursday, July 8th, 2010

Bumped for the newly broken hearted.

"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

posts: 1183   ·   registered: Sep. 23rd, 2009   ·   location: Brigadoon
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CluelessGuy ( member #28491) posted at 1:51 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2010

Bump

BH - now 48
Divorced - Nov. 26, 2012

posts: 656   ·   registered: May. 9th, 2010
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HippyQueen ( member #29055) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2010

Thank you. I'm new to this forum but not to the broken heart. I really needed this.

And bumping to the top.

Update: My husband passed away on 9/21/12. I've been on an emotional roller coaster since.
BS45 (Me)
STBXWH49
M- 2/14/87
2 sons, 19 & 23 YO

3/1/11 - heading for D.
6/4/11 R- Turned out to be false.
7/29/11 another D-day and decision

posts: 121   ·   registered: Jul. 15th, 2010   ·   location: TX
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ob-la-de ( member #23735) posted at 4:42 PM on Sunday, July 18th, 2010

bump for newbies

Time will tell

posts: 958   ·   registered: Apr. 23rd, 2009
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punky ( member #12233) posted at 11:55 PM on Sunday, July 18th, 2010

bumping for Songinmyheart.

13 years later...finally healed. Definitely survived and thrived and you can, too.

posts: 11326   ·   registered: Oct. 4th, 2006   ·   location: A whole 'nother country
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justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 6:48 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2010

Bump

In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell

posts: 432   ·   registered: Feb. 26th, 2007   ·   location: Swimming towards inner peace
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JustKeepSwimmig ( member #19269) posted at 2:14 AM on Friday, July 23rd, 2010

bump for any newbies

Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008

posts: 2144   ·   registered: Apr. 25th, 2008   ·   location: Canada
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SuspiciousWife ( member #18108) posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

bumping

Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

posts: 557   ·   registered: Feb. 8th, 2008   ·   location: East Coast
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