Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 4:12 AM on Sunday, January 30th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 10:17 AM on Monday, January 31st, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 7:26 PM on Friday, February 4th, 2011
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 3:16 AM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 6:05 AM on Sunday, February 6th, 2011
Bump for the new folks!
You will survive this!
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
cdnmommy ( member #30182) posted at 9:18 PM on Monday, February 7th, 2011
Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 6:59 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2011
annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:22 PM on Friday, February 11th, 2011
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 2:17 PM on Saturday, February 12th, 2011
bumperfragilisticexpialidocious
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 10:52 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 12:05 PM on Thursday, February 17th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 4:59 PM on Saturday, February 19th, 2011
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 11:57 AM on Monday, February 21st, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 6:49 AM on Thursday, February 24th, 2011
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 3:13 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2011
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:40 AM on Tuesday, March 1st, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 12:33 PM on Thursday, March 3rd, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 9:32 PM on Saturday, March 5th, 2011
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 12:16 PM on Monday, March 7th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bent44 ( member #31386) posted at 4:05 PM on Monday, March 7th, 2011
Argh....and thank you! Sometimes this is all so hard to make sensee of, and your consice list really helped.
"If you marry a chicken, don't expect an eagle."
I don't know if my chicken will ever become an eagle. But rest assured, I'm going to be a phoenix. Nevermind that I am still in the ashes stage of the process.
Update...he
