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mrplspls (original poster member #75665) posted at 5:53 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2021
We are still together, we have a great number of great days. Maybe R progress makes you over confident.
Thinks took a tumble this month. A beloved relative living overseas died suddenly while walking her dog at age 70 something. Healthy and the death was sudden and unexpected.
Grief affected mood for both of us. Hurt feelings came back. Some temperamental exchanges. Then our adult daughter aged 25 caught covid 19. So put aside dispute mood and rally together. Daughter in first days.
We have discussed going back to our couples psychologist for further therapy.
I am not sure of our path ahead.
We are together.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:20 PM on Saturday, March 27th, 2021
I hope your daughter recovers fully.
Any sort of stress in your life is likely to trigger thoughts of the A.
[This message edited by sisoon at 11:21 AM, March 27th (Saturday)]
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
mrplspls (original poster member #75665) posted at 2:08 PM on Wednesday, March 31st, 2021
Thanks sisoon, daughter is improving every day, well enough to work from home...
Stress triggering thoughts of A seems to be my life....
mrplspls (original poster member #75665) posted at 7:06 PM on Wednesday, April 7th, 2021
Daughter now fully recovered.
Stevesn ( member #58312) posted at 10:53 AM on Wednesday, April 14th, 2021
Glad to hear it.
What’s going on between you and your W these days? How can we help?
fBBF. Just before proposing, broke it off after her 2nd confirmed PA in 2 yrs. 9 mo later I met the wonderful woman I have spent the next 30 years with.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:58 PM on Wednesday, April 14th, 2021
Thanks for the update. I'm really glad the news is good.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
lifestoshort ( member #18442) posted at 2:23 AM on Thursday, April 15th, 2021
so glad you are still together, making it work.
Im 45. 1st H I left in 2001 after 3 kids. narcassist.
2nd exH had MANY affairs.FALSE R. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I got 100% custody. ex hasnt seen kids in 6 yrs.
2014 to now: dated highschool sweetheart. He cheated w 23 yr old & left.
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