jjct ( member #17484) posted at 5:15 PM on Saturday, May 8th, 2010
flowermom ( member #23950) posted at 8:57 PM on Saturday, May 8th, 2010
Wish this was requires reading for newbies!!!! Thanks!!!
Me-BS WHSA, 3 wonderful kids, all grown.
Denial is not just a river in Egypt
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 9:30 AM on Saturday, May 15th, 2010
Bumpage
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 8:17 PM on Monday, May 17th, 2010
bumping for the new hurting ones.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
lilac18 ( member #25180) posted at 9:50 PM on Monday, May 17th, 2010
Me/BW 45
WH 35
DDay 08/09/09
Reconciled
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Albert Einstein
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 2:32 AM on Tuesday, May 18th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 1:43 AM on Thursday, May 20th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
justbreathe ( member #13765) posted at 1:12 AM on Sunday, May 23rd, 2010
In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 1:06 AM on Tuesday, May 25th, 2010
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 1:17 AM on Tuesday, May 25th, 2010
How I wish this was here when I first signed up.
Great Job! 
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 9:48 PM on Wednesday, May 26th, 2010
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
cass ( member #24261) posted at 7:13 PM on Sunday, May 30th, 2010
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
AkKat22 ( member #28598) posted at 5:54 AM on Monday, May 31st, 2010
Thank you, I wish I had the guts to come here a year ago!
Me: BS 46
FWH: 42
D-day: EA/PA 19 June 09
5 Children
M: 20 years
Separated
Karma62 ( member #23320) posted at 1:53 AM on Tuesday, June 1st, 2010
Thanks SerJR
We are in R... but 1.5 yrs. out is still new to me.
Me: BS 48
Him: FWH 64
Married 19
D-Day # 1 31-10-07 EA?? (Denied!)
D-Day # 2 17-12-08 Full PA both years same OW
OW 37S Neighbour (NC)
Working on R with hope
"You have been Weighed, Measured and you have been Found wanting" -
Lotsa ( member #28078) posted at 5:40 AM on Wednesday, June 2nd, 2010
ThriveNotSurvive ( member #22093) posted at 8:22 AM on Sunday, June 6th, 2010
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 8:39 PM on Tuesday, June 8th, 2010
bumped for ITSNOTMY FAULT
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
sharonons ( member #24462) posted at 8:53 PM on Tuesday, June 8th, 2010
Thanks for bumping this too. I needed to see this again.
whatdoto ( member #28555) posted at 9:09 PM on Tuesday, June 8th, 2010
Thanks for bumping...I really needed to read this again.
"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".
FindingNolia ( member #28518) posted at 10:14 PM on Tuesday, June 8th, 2010
married 18 years
separated 7/2010
divorced 11/2011
