SerJR (original poster member #14993) posted at 12:08 AM on Sunday, June 7th, 2009
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:13 PM on Tuesday, June 9th, 2009
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 11:02 AM on Sunday, June 21st, 2009
Bumping 
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
lostsuol ( member #13706) posted at 11:15 PM on Sunday, June 21st, 2009
jmac525 ( member #24204) posted at 2:09 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2009
I copied it as a word document so that I can read it when I need to get my head on straight. Very good advice and easy to understand, Thank you!
BS 37
WS 37
Married 18 years
Two children 12 & 18
D Day May 1,09
WS moved out May 5,09
I am hoping for R, but WW refuses and says it is not possible, she's "IN LOVE" I refuse to give up hope!
6-24-09,I really no longer want her back
marvalon ( member #23324) posted at 3:38 AM on Monday, June 22nd, 2009
That's a great post. I am ready for all this. I have started some of this and will soon see a lawyer. I am going to stop his engagement in my financial affairs, which will make him blow his stack. He likes using all the write offs from my business, but I will be filing separate tax returns as long as this is going on. I don't trust his financial judgment anyway. He also wants money from me monthly. That's stopping. He has bought OW flowers on different occasions, and probably things I am not aware of. I am keeping your checklist handy as a reminder.
The most important person in your life is you. The person who you love the most in the world should be you! Why not? Who better than you?
Ayn Rand
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 10:55 PM on Thursday, June 25th, 2009
bumping for the new ones.
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
SuspiciousWife ( member #18108) posted at 4:12 PM on Thursday, July 2nd, 2009
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
Dust Bunny ( member #2066) posted at 3:30 AM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2009
Bump
FBW married 30 years to RFWH
(ps... F=former :P)
"Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the progress he(or she) does not become a monster."
Friedrich Nietzsche
still confounded ( member #7826) posted at 12:34 AM on Sunday, July 12th, 2009
"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
D-day April 2005
(Married 33 years, together 35)
Divorced Dec. '05
Life is good, but it took a long time to heal.
tractorgirl ( member #21226) posted at 4:45 AM on Tuesday, July 14th, 2009
bumping yet again. there are so many new people on here all the time!!
BS=me, late 30's
FWH=him, early 40's
Married 15 years
OW=19 yrs old
2 boys: 12 & 9, wonderful!!
Reconciling
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 10:51 PM on Thursday, July 30th, 2009
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
nooneeverthought ( member #20157) posted at 3:26 PM on Tuesday, August 4th, 2009
it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you
jewel123 ( member #22863) posted at 3:15 PM on Tuesday, August 11th, 2009
bump
BS me 44
H 46 (paulie)
married 25 years (hs sweethearts)
dday 8-08
DS19
DS23
New love is the brightest, and long love is the greatest, but revived love is the tenderest thing known on earth. -Thomas Hardy
Reconciled! :)
JustKeepSwimmig ( member #19269) posted at 4:00 AM on Monday, August 24th, 2009
Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008
mscuteone ( member #25223) posted at 9:35 PM on Monday, August 24th, 2009
JustKeepSwimmig ( member #19269) posted at 1:00 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2009
Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008
jolene ( member #17993) posted at 10:13 AM on Thursday, August 27th, 2009
Divorced 10/2013! Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya!
willthiseverend ( member #25107) posted at 7:54 PM on Saturday, September 5th, 2009
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
willthiseverend ( member #25107) posted at 9:20 AM on Friday, September 11th, 2009
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
