Emotionalhell (original poster member #39902) posted at 4:38 AM on Wednesday, April 29th, 2026
I am moving out. Rural area, rentals are hard to find. I was approved for a rental; however, the cat urine smell was so strong, and they had already shampooed the carpets. The landlord wasn't willing to take any measures to remove the cat urine smell. So, I'm moving in with my son, who is renting my house. At least I will be emotionally safe. So much has happened since the beginning of this year, and I know that if I stay, nothing will ever change. Since the start of the year, I’ve been told he can't take me because I told the other betrayed spouse. He only wanted a platonic relationship and reminded me he had at least one affair to intentionally hurt me while he faked ED. He says he loves me and doesn’t want me to go, but he still isn’t willing to give me any intimacy. I deserve so much better. I'm loyal to a fault. Being single will be better than this emotional hell ride. This is still so hard.
The not feeling safe is strong. I can't move fast enough!
Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.
AnnieOakley ( member #13332) posted at 10:39 PM on Wednesday, April 29th, 2026
Ugh. That is too bad about the rental. Once it is in the padding and floor boards cat urine is almost impossible to get out. That landlord has an expensive project and problem in all likelihood.
On a brighter note, you have options with your son. There are no leases to worry about and hopefully you work out the finances to benefit you both! Eventually the perfect place will come up for you.
[This message edited by AnnieOakley at 10:39 PM, Wednesday, April 29th]
Me= BSHim=xWH (did the work & became the man I always thought he was, but it was too late)M=23+,T=27+dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced."If you are going through hell, keep going."
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 1:05 AM on Thursday, April 30th, 2026
Hopefully other options will open up. Meanwhile, I hope you get the peace you deserve.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 12:12 PM on Thursday, April 30th, 2026
Two things out of impulse:
1- what an asshole. Overloaded my bulls** detector in just few sentences.
2- you deserve so much better, you seem full of life, and you’re not going to be single long if you so choose.
And this time you’re going to get a man, not the dollar store "Plato" sissy
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