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Divorce/Separation :
Feeling weird about ex’s new relationship

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 DebraVation (original poster member #51156) posted at 6:40 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2025

I have been divorced nearly a year and am two years out from finding about the (last) affair. I have been doing well I think and hardly think about the ex husband at all.

Today he told me he’s been dating a university friend for a few months and he’s telling the kids tomorrow

It made me feel weird. I don’t want him, but it annoys me that he’s happy and always lands on his feet.

I am doing fine but there’s nobody in the scene for me (and I don’t think I want there to be). But it still feels odd. I know who she is, I don’t know if that makes it feel weirder.

Uurgh.

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:58 PM on Sunday, March 9th, 2025

Yeah, I think that is normal. Just hope she is nice to your kids. Do something special for yourself today.

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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