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Chaos (original poster member #61031) posted at 5:57 PM on Sunday, October 25th, 2020
I just now realized, that my 2 year Anitversary of DDay3 - the day I found out it never really ended - they were still very much active in the LTA and deep underground with it. The day I blew shit up and finally told OBS - was a few days ago. And I am only just now realizing it. The day came and went with not one thought of anything LTA related.
Interestingly enough - the 3 year Antiversary of DDay1 this past summer came and went without so much of a thought until the end of the day, when I couldn't realize why writing that date - it was familiar. I realized it late in the afternoon - shrugged my shoulders and rolled my eyes - and went about my day.
Never gave a thought of DDay2 (a few weeks before DDay3 when I realize NC was broken) until I type this now.
No idea the purpose of the post - but thought I'd throw it out there.
All is well in the Land of Chaos.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 6:02 PM on Sunday, October 25th, 2020
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
LemonSpearmint ( new member #75630) posted at 8:34 PM on Sunday, October 25th, 2020
That's great news Chaos 
That last line made me smile.
Me: BW 40 / Him: WH 42
Dday July 15 2020
3 month EA/PA - Working on R
Keep moving forward
CaliforniaNative ( member #60149) posted at 9:23 PM on Sunday, October 25th, 2020
I’m happy that everything worked out for you. Infidelity is not easy for anyone. We are stronger and wiser because of it.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 9:43 PM on Sunday, October 25th, 2020
Sounds like you are in a healthy place. Congratulations!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 11:59 PM on Sunday, October 25th, 2020
So very glad to read this. Your strength has got you to this point where you live in the now and not in the past. Congratulations.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 12:01 AM on Monday, October 26th, 2020
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
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