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Jambomo posted 9/24/2020 16:21 PM

This thought has occurred to me lately. It may actually come down to that. Would it be so bad, if our families knew the truth? The truth is supposed to set you free

Tell the truth and blow it up, just as the same advice is given to any BS when they find out about an affair, because that is what this is, an affair.

If people try to reconcile after an affair, both are making a commitment to work together and rebuild. Yes you did a bad thing 10 years ago, but even speaking as a BS myself, you should not still be punishing your WS after 10 years. Not to say it should be forgotten but your husband is using what happened before beyond what is reasonable, if a partner can not get past the hurt - they should end the relationship. Being a BS is not an excuse to be an abusive asshole.

Best of luck, Iíve found living alone and being separated to be brilliant and I was very scared of it. Donít be scared, do what is best for your own self.

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