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heartbrokeninNC posted 7/24/2020 18:57 PM

*NEWS FLASH**NEWS FLASH**NEWS FLASH*

I never thought this day would come. WW informed me tonight that she has dropped her 30 day notice and her last day of work is 8/21. She resigned her position here without a job in hand in GA. In her words, she is moving to GA on 8/22! Good Riddance

Bor9455 posted 7/24/2020 19:05 PM

BS only

[This message edited by SI Staff at 5:08 PM, August 6th (Thursday)]

steadychevy posted 7/24/2020 19:52 PM

Do you feel considerable lighter, heartbroken?

Buffer posted 7/24/2020 19:59 PM

Thank Christ for that! Donít let the door hit youíre ass on the way out. Might need a new door.
Buffer

Newlifeisgreat posted 7/24/2020 20:00 PM

Congratulations!!!

Now letís hope she sticks to it!!!! Can she use any unused vacation day to be out sooner?

Continue to keep as much distance from her as possible!!

[This message edited by Newlifeisgreat at 8:02 PM, July 24th (Friday)]

heartbrokeninNC posted 7/24/2020 20:34 PM

Do you feel considerable lighter, heartbroken?

steadychevy, I really feel a lot better now that I know. Since there is a time-frame it has become more tangible.

Now letís hope she sticks to it!!!!

I've got my fingers, toes and everything else that I can cross, crossed. Brought up that the separation agreement needs to be done (signed) when she leaves but WW did not say anything which concerns me.

Can she use any unused vacation day to be out sooner?

She used those when trysting with POSOM.

Continue to keep as much distance from her as possible!!

That much I am doing. She is still trying to blame shift the whole A but grey rocking here as much as possible. Did not raise my voice tonight which I'm proud of. Not really getting that mad about it anymore because it's really pitiful and pathetic what she is doing. All the mental gymnastics and rationalization exercises are laughable.

Newlifeisgreat posted 7/24/2020 22:20 PM

Can you talk to your lawyer about her not signing the separation agreement?

Donít want her to leave the state and therefore possibly avoid paying child support!!!

Congratulations once again

heartbrokeninNC posted 7/25/2020 07:11 AM

Can you talk to your lawyer about her not signing the separation agreement?

I'm going to bring this up to the attorney to see what our course of action is if she does not sign it. I'm willing to change some language in there in regards to DD16 to get this done.

Donít want her to leave the state and therefore possibly avoid paying child support!!!

Hopefully, it will not come to this but I'm prepared to fight. WW has a history of defaulting on things.

Buffer posted 7/25/2020 20:08 PM

Keep on her, counting the days. Must feel like each day is dragging out the eventuality.
Buffer

heartbrokeninNC posted 7/25/2020 20:50 PM

Keep on her, counting the days. Must feel like each day is dragging out the eventuality.

Will definitely keep on her. I'm ready to be happy again.

Newlifeisgreat posted 7/25/2020 21:02 PM

You must be jumping out of your skin more than kids on December 1st waiting on Christmas!

Newlifeisgreat posted 7/25/2020 21:03 PM

Only 28 days left!

thatbpguy posted 7/25/2020 21:10 PM

Just a thought, but were it me I would move anything you wish to keep that might be of some value. When she goes, who knows the last few things she might take.

Also, once she leaves, if she continues to delay the divorce, I would think you can use abandonment as a proper reasoning and proceed without her consent.

NoOptTo posted 7/26/2020 03:56 AM

Inform your landlord that you want your locks changed the day she moves out

Buffer posted 7/26/2020 04:04 AM

Well done brother👍

Newlifeisgreat posted 7/26/2020 09:16 AM

27

Bigger posted 7/26/2020 10:17 AM

All you have is when she leaves her present job.
Itís a victory, but IMHO more like a won skirmish rather than a won war.
She could still be there in 27 days.
Keep up the pressure on when she is LEAVING.

heartbrokeninNC posted 7/26/2020 11:08 AM

You must be jumping out of your skin more than kids on December 1st waiting on Christmas!

Newlifeisgreat, definitely feels that way and can't wait to go total NC. I'm tired of the hurt and pain.

Inform your landlord that you want your locks changed the day she moves out

NoOptTo, will be doing that the day after she moves out. Attorney has advised me to do the same.

Keep up the pressure on when she is LEAVING.

Bigger, I'm keeping pressure on her pretty good and hoping that she is true to her word (I'm skeptical too). She is currently going through her dresser drawers and getting things ready to go. That can mean a lot of things but keeping it in perspective.


heartbrokeninNC posted 7/28/2020 10:40 AM

WW is still moving stuff out of the house that is hers. She informed me that she is heading out of town this weekend to go see POSOM in order to transfer more of her things to him to take to GA.

Slowly but surely the cancer is being excised and cutout.

thatbpguy posted 7/28/2020 10:43 AM

A new day and a breath of fresh air for you.

[This message edited by thatbpguy at 10:44 AM, July 28th (Tuesday)]

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