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Things that make you go hmm....

SMSA925 posted 6/17/2019 19:53 PM

Its been quite a while since DDay 1 and Im healed, even if the M didnt survive
(But that was really due to DDay2). I was just on FB posting a pic of my sweet puppy when a friend request came across from guess who? OW from DDay #1. Now, I dont know her. Never met her, we never spoke or texted. Although OBS and I spoke ALOT. But that was years ago. And they are D now.

I dont know what to feel. Its like I just saw an alien run across my back yard. Hmmmm

Justgetitoverwith posted 6/17/2019 22:34 PM

Accept and ask her what she wants? I'd be soo curious. But then again, I've always been nosy :). Do you think she's finally matured and grown a conscience?

Smjsome1 posted 6/18/2019 00:03 AM

Too bad you can’t do a little note with your rejection
“Sorry ... “ and something politely stating why you wouldn’t be friends with someone like her

Chaos posted 6/18/2019 07:14 AM

WTF?!?!

Let it hang. Even a "decline" will give her attention she doesn't deserve.

deephurt posted 6/18/2019 07:20 AM

I agree, let it hang. Maybe it will drive her crazy wondering if you have even seen it.

Although deleting it would eliminate you seeing her name while on Facebook.

Robert22205https posted 6/18/2019 07:24 AM

The request may not really be from the OW.

Facebook automatically generates friend requests based on a search of your friend list and your friend's list - (since you opened your accounts). And it goes the other way too - she may get a computer generated friend request from you too.

Is the OW friends with someone on your friend list?

SMSA925 posted 6/18/2019 08:01 AM

No one, other than WH, knows her or knows about her. Shes blocked on WHs FB, has been since DDay. I checked, still blocked.

After his whole situation got ridiculous my mantra has been "Dont engage the crazy", and its served me well. But Im just so damn CURIOUS! Isnt this how the vampire gets in your house? You need to invite it in?

Oh, well. Thanks for being my sounding board! DELETE!

cocoplus5nuts posted 6/18/2019 08:34 AM

Facebook automatically generates friend requests

It generates friend suggestions, but I don't think it generates actual friend requests. Sometimes, though, a person's account can be hacked or copied and friend requests are sent to everyone even remotely associated.

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