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Hobbyist posted 4/6/2019 21:10 PM

Just need a hug and support. My first serious (3rd relationship since D) new beginning just ended, because of me spiraling out on some thoughts. It truly is the gift that keeps on giving.

We had plans to get married next year.

Sigh.

Phoenix1 posted 4/6/2019 21:32 PM

Well that blows. I am truly sorry.

because of me spiraling out on some thoughts

Could this ^^^ be due to some unresolved healing? Perhaps going to IC can help you uncover the source of the "spiraling" so you don't carry it into a new relationship. Just a thought.

I really am sorry though.

Hobbyist posted 4/6/2019 21:40 PM

Yes, of course that's something I need to work on.

WhoTheBleep posted 4/6/2019 21:42 PM

I'm so sorry, Hobbyist. That must be very painful. Hugs to you.

Myname posted 4/7/2019 08:22 AM

It truly is the gift that keeps on giving.

So true.

I'm sorry.

BearlyBreathing posted 4/7/2019 10:19 AM

(((Hobbyist)))

little turtle posted 4/7/2019 10:39 AM

(((Hobbyist)))

Take care of yourself.

MaryG posted 4/7/2019 11:52 AM

Totally understand and feel for you. I can’t even get as far as a relationship, such is the devastating and probably (for me, anyway) permanent damage of infidelity. It surely is the gift that keeps on giving....

Tripletrouble posted 4/7/2019 13:46 PM

I’m so sorry Hobbyist. I completely understand. I have struggled terribly with the spinning out and I am six years out.

OptionedOut posted 4/10/2019 09:55 AM

So sorry, Hobbyist. It truly is the gift that keeps on giving. It's like a mental STD. Perhaps talk to a therapist about what happened?