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Would you forgive a couple kisses?

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Dismayed2012 posted 1/15/2019 11:49 AM

Stop drinking; problem solved. Next time one of you might wake up in someone else's bed. Sorry about your situation.

rambler posted 1/16/2019 20:04 PM

I actually worry more about the strip poker thing.

So you are now naked with this couple what happened next. It is not uncommon for strip poker game to continue with the nude players betting something other than close.


What happened after the game. What was the interaction with you and this couple after the game.


Don't you think your husband's behavior is in some part driven by this by the game. Don't you think your husband thinks there was more.

Dontworrybehappy posted 1/21/2019 12:44 PM

What pissed me off too is his comment if I did like talking with her we had good conversations. But I didnít like her in that way. She was a friend and I knew she would do it. But I never have been attracted to her......

So if you are not attracted to someone why risk it all? I guess they donít think Of the risk. I donít know. I am so lost on what this is? I donít think he loved her. Maybe it was attention.

twisted posted 1/21/2019 15:43 PM

I have to agree with rambler, how did the strip poker game ....end? Is there more to this story?

SimplyRed posted 1/21/2019 15:53 PM

Sleep with dogs, wake up with fleas. You both have problems with boundaries. If you both had decided no boundaries was OK and was a decision you made together to not be mutually exclusive and openly spend time with others with the same agreement then I would say forgive, forget and get over yourself. But I think you both have poor boundaries and even poorer choices in friends. If you are serious about your relationship then work on your boundaries and dump the friends. Find new ones that support the sanctity of marriage.

ramius posted 1/21/2019 15:59 PM

Yo both need a different group of friends.
Some IC and MC as well.

This^^^^^^^^^

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