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bunnyhabit (original poster member #66321) posted at 12:00 PM on Friday, October 12th, 2018
New here. Totally confused with all the Acronyms used here. Appreciate any help you can give me.
Cute Bunny
Separation Oct 2nd
STBXH 45YO Nigerian
Me BS 19YO Filipino
DS 2YO Biracial
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 12:42 PM on Friday, October 12th, 2018
In the upper left of SI pages, you should see a yellow box with a number of links. Click 'The Healing Library. You should see a page that links to a list of Abbreviations.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 3:31 PM on Friday, October 12th, 2018
Yeah, the acronyms can get a little crazy around here.
You are not alone. 
[This message edited by barcher144 at 9:31 AM, October 12th (Friday)]
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
DarkHoleHeart ( member #58272) posted at 4:21 PM on Friday, October 12th, 2018
I think it doesn't have POSOM. I puzzled a long time over it.
Piece Of Shit Other Man.
@DDay#1:
Me: BS, 40; Her: WW, 32
M: 10y, in relationship 15y, 3DD (8,8,6)
Dday#1: Oct, 2016, Dday#2: Jun, 2017
AP#1: COW PA, AP#2: EA/PA 3 months, AP#3: COW PA
Currently (2024): Plain of the Lethal Flatness
bunnyhabit (original poster member #66321) posted at 8:07 PM on Friday, October 12th, 2018
Thank You Everyone I Founded Definer List
Cute Bunny
Separation Oct 2nd
STBXH 45YO Nigerian
Me BS 19YO Filipino
DS 2YO Biracial
bunnyhabit (original poster member #66321) posted at 8:48 PM on Friday, October 12th, 2018
POSOM is great. How bout HPOSH (Huge Piece Of Shit Husband)?
Cute Bunny
Separation Oct 2nd
STBXH 45YO Nigerian
Me BS 19YO Filipino
DS 2YO Biracial
pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 4:03 AM on Saturday, October 13th, 2018
Glad you are here bunny. This is the place to get real answers and I would have been lost without the help I got here. It took me some time to get used to the nicknames but it's helpful when you're writing to shorten the words.
I'd like to add RS.......remorseful spouse. Otherwise we have to keep using WS and I truly believe some WS have moved on and are worthy of being called RS.
What say you mods?
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 4:05 AM on Saturday, October 13th, 2018
It could also be reconciled spouse.
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 5:16 PM on Saturday, October 13th, 2018
pureheartkit, You don't have to keep using the W. You can use H or W for husband/wife.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
bunnyhabit (original poster member #66321) posted at 10:24 PM on Saturday, October 13th, 2018
thanks for your words of encouragement and wisdom
Cute Bunny
Separation Oct 2nd
STBXH 45YO Nigerian
Me BS 19YO Filipino
DS 2YO Biracial
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