Lovewinssometime (original poster member #54286) posted at 4:00 PM on Monday, October 19th, 2026
I haven’t been on here in years! Reading back through my old posts from ten years ago is heartbreaking with all the love and hope I had for that man, to cut a long story short after everything he had put me through, after we had a daughter together, back in February he had made himself a profile for seeking services on a prostitution site. After the devastation he seen it all caused after the years we spent rebuilding, after becoming a father to a daughter!! He was still able to go back to that world and lie to us in our faces. I found his account in August … I didn’t want another conversation there was nothing left of me to give! I just told him to leave, I see him as nothing but a sleazy weak liar now. I have no respect for him as a human, it’s time to put myself and my girl first. We are moving from the UK to Canada for a year! What a beautiful place to heal. My advice would be now, choose yourself! If you would never do it to them do not let them do it to you! When someone shows you who they are and what they’re capable of believe them the first time! I’m just glad I found it now at 43 and not 63 or 73, I still have time to make a life for me and my beautiful daughter, because we deserve the best…. Take care xx
Me:BS 35
Him:FWS 40
Dday: 2016 January TT til JUly, (full story in profile)
Currently in R, it’s hard work.. but so far so good and worth it. We were blessed with a beautiful baby daughter in April :-)
"Be your own hero"
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 7:30 PM on Monday, October 19th, 2026
A win is a win.
And I would call this a win.
The loser, is the cheater.
The real one, the one who choose to lose it all while trying to lose themselves.
Wishes granted and freedom earned.
Next time it will be better!
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