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Reconciliation :
2nd wedding attended


 DogGoneIt (original poster new member #79698) posted at 3:37 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2024

We recently attended our second post dday wedding. Our first one didn't go too well, I coped by taking a few too many trips to the bar. This time we made sure to talk about it on the front end. The plan was if I was struggling I'd squeeze her hand to signal and we'd slide out the back. Wasn't necessary. Crossed my mind only a little. While the pastor was going on about the sanctity of marriage I was thinking about my drive on number 10. I had ripped it left fairway 60 yards short of the green, chunked my wedge, on in 3, two-putt to take another bleepin bogey.

Mostly I was looking at the 22 & 20 yr old newlyweds with a mixture of joy and concern. More so concern. Adults by age only. But of course I hope and wish the best for my family. All in all a good day.

Just thought I'd share some progress made.

[This message edited by DogGoneIt at 3:40 PM, Friday, June 28th]

BH mid 40sDDay March 2019Reconciling

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Revenger ( member #80445) posted at 3:58 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2024

Ha, yeah, my FWH looks at me lovingly during wedding ceremonies and tries to make it a "look how far we've come" moment. Like now it means something. Definite trigger for me! Even though I'm now more on the "I've seen Disney behind the scenes" side and weddings aren't as magical and meaningful as they used to be to me.

Married to an SA
Many DDays after discovering many, many EAs/PAs Working on R

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