Topic is Sleeping.
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 1:20 PM on Thursday, October 26th, 2023
or she's not a hooker?
...or an escort? Or,most likely, a "sugarbaby?"
They're all hookers, really. But it would change the way he met her..and the fact that he would have had to pay her.
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 1:32 PM on Thursday, October 26th, 2023
Redbaron's post prompted me to look at your first thread. After a month,you completely deleted your first post,telling what he had done. Why? Did he admit to lying about all of it,so it was irrelevant? What happened?
But you are what you did
And I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive
The smallest man who ever lived..
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 4:28 PM on Thursday, October 26th, 2023
I hate what infidelity does to our self esteem. My xWS MOW was almost 20 years younger than me. She was very pretty but I still thought I was a step above her even though I was older. The younger aspect got to me. I could never compete with that. Infidelity makes you feel like you are in some sort of competition. It's the worst feeling. I too became obsessed for YEARS. My xWS continued the A under my nose for another 2 years putting me in False R. He felt she was worth it and now I believed everything she said about me, that my xWS was staying with me because he was afraid I would commit suicide ( I attempted suicide after initial D-Day and all the broken NC's was making me crazy).
The thing is there are always going to be people out there with something "better" but does it really matter? We are worth our self esteem. We deserve to be treated with kindness and loved for the person that we are not what we look like, not how much money or education we have. The WS and the AP are already lower as a human being for committing the betrayal. A good person doesn't rip another persons soul apart. They don't lie to the person they claim to love or debase themselves. That already makes them the loser. Even WS's that leave for an affair partner, well there goes 2 people who share the same characteristic of treating another human being poorly especially one they promised to love.
Looks fade we are all going to grow old and saggy. Some may even lose their finances. Who we are on the inside and how we treat others is what counts. What we are contributing towards making this world a better place.
fBS/fWS(me):51 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(21) DS(18)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorced 8/8/24
Topic is Sleeping.
