Topic is Sleeping.
Welp (original poster new member #83606) posted at 4:31 AM on Tuesday, September 26th, 2023
Update, I gave her the ultimatum saying that I am moving forward with the work to end our marriage. She said okay. She also said that she is not committed to this relationship. She wasn't happy about the in-house separation idea. So she escalated by going to see the AP. She spend the weekend with him. It seems that we are done. She doesn't care a bit. It is still extremely painful to watch. Now she is back living in another room, while I am in the master bedroom. We are taking turns caring for the kids 50/50. I told her I want to mediate. She said we can try but hasn't asked me about it again.... What a freaking mess.. Kids are very confused about what is happening.
20 years of marriage, I swear it feels like someone body swapped my wife, this is a totally different person. I was reading the book "Just Friends" in there it mentions that "time is always on the side of marriage". I don't know if I should just drag my feet for divorce or finish already..
WontBeFooledAgai ( member #72671) posted at 5:06 AM on Tuesday, September 26th, 2023
Friend, your WW has abandoned ship and gone looney. You will NOT win her back by waiting her out i.e. letting her enjoy her new boyfriend and put yourself out there as a Plan B for her.
You can proceed on D with or without your WW's help. You AND your kids need to get out of infidelity.
Topic is Sleeping.
