Topic is Sleeping.
JammyWheel (original poster member #80828) posted at 5:29 AM on Monday, May 29th, 2023
It’s hard that he has seemingly rebuilt life - new girlfriend who he now has a child with; family and friends rallied round THEM despite the horrendous way he left me for her.
It is hard to build up life because he left me with kids that need a lot of attention (I am a carer to one of them who has additional needs), and I don’t have the family support that he and the girlfriend have
Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 7:49 AM on Monday, May 29th, 2023
I'm struggling too. We have to be strong. We will get through it. And when we get to the other side the reward will be enourmes because our love was true and our integrity will be intact.
Our children need us.
Sending you strength.
[This message edited by Helena67 at 7:49 AM, Monday, May 29th]
BS (me) 56 years. Divorcing. Almost there!
JammyWheel (original poster member #80828) posted at 7:54 AM on Monday, May 29th, 2023
Thanks Helena for the reply
It’s so hard isn’t it
If I didn’t have a child with additional needs it would be so much easier to build life back but there are a lot of constraints
HOW is everyone accepting their new family unit - him, her, our two kids, their baby
The divorce isn’t even under way (due to paperwork delays)
He must have painted himself as a victim
I just never dreamed our marriage would end up like this! I wish it had never happened.
Men can make a new start because there’s no time limit to their child bearing years
It’s so unfair !
Forks027 ( member #59996) posted at 12:27 PM on Monday, May 29th, 2023
Lost a lot of friends and family bc of this kind of situation. But you know? It’s a good screen test for who your true friends and family are. You have those who only flock to the sleazy couple’s well of happiness due to easily believing the lies and victimhood they portray for themselves, going off on the mentality that since they weren’t treated like shit, it doesn’t affect them.
It’s hard, not gonna lie. But let’s hope that true friends and family are waiting around the corner.
JammyWheel (original poster member #80828) posted at 2:11 PM on Monday, May 29th, 2023
* that since they weren’t treated like shit, it doesn’t affect them*
This line nails it
Topic is Sleeping.