OnTheOtherSideOfHell ( new member #82983) posted at 10:50 PM on Friday, March 17th, 2023
This is the one area that affairs are often as unique as people. My husbands LTA was a lot more of a friendship with infrequent sex. According to him, (only she and he know for sure) it was always at her request. As in "instead of a quick coffee can we get a room"? She was much much too big for car sex (or even large SUV) 😂🤷♀️. For him it was about someone believing he was more than an anxiety ridden loser in life. According to him, he accepted sex when he really wanted a hug which is why it wasn’t very often. 🤷♀️🙄 who knows what goes on in these broken people’s brains. All I know is even reconciled, happy, and 5 years out it doesn’t matter to me what the hell his demons and whys were as long as he stays away from them from now on:
