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Wayward Side :
Situation Escalated J Springer Style

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 Confused1221 (original poster new member #79447) posted at 12:09 AM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2022

Sorry, I've decided not to post anymore, thanks for input.

[This message edited by Confused1221 at 4:04 PM, Tuesday, January 4th]

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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 12:41 AM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2022

Trickle truth is a ridiculous phrase we use, instead of calling it what it is...lies and prolonged abuse. You abused him for 2 months,and he snapped.

He may snap again.

[This message edited by HellFire at 12:43 AM, Tuesday, January 4th]

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Betrayedmale ( new member #79696) posted at 5:52 AM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2022

If they touch you violently, it's over. There is no R. Leave.

Married 24 years.Me: BS (43)She: WS (42)Four Daughters (6)DDay: Sept. 7, 2021 (WS Confessed)Still together and processing.

Mental illness is not an excuse, but it cannot be discounted either. Those demons suck.

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 Confused1221 (original poster new member #79447) posted at 4:07 PM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2022

Moderator, sorry, maybe you want to delete my 2 posts. I've decided not to post again.

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Underserving ( member #72259) posted at 6:18 PM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2022

I can’t see the original post anymore but I hope if anything physical happened, you have gotten yourself to a safe place.

Just as there is nothing a betrayed spouse can do to a wayward to justify cheating, there is nothing a wayward can do to justify physical abuse from a betrayed. We are all grown ups responsible for our own choices. No one deserves to be cheated on. No one deserves to fear for their safety either.

Please don’t feel like you can’t post here. There are so many people willing to listen and help you.

BW (32)Found out 3 years post end of AD-day 12-9-19In R

Infidelity brings out the cuss in me. I’m not as foul mouthed in real life. ;)

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HellFire ( member #59305) posted at 6:56 PM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2022

Abuse is abuse. You have abused him,and now he has abused you. Neither one of you are a safe partner.

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