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RocketRaccoon ( member #54620) posted at 4:25 AM on Wednesday, September 15th, 2021
Just a fucking game to her.
Then don't play her game, because if you play her game, she will surely win, as she knows the rules, and you don't.
So, what do you do? Go on your own path. Notice I did not say 'play your own game', and that was on purpose. By playing games, you only exacerbate the problem, as a game is about winning or losing. A game does not solve the problem, which is to get out of Infidelity.
Do the 180, not for anyone else, but yourself.
smolderingdark ( member #64064) posted at 6:03 PM on Sunday, October 24th, 2021
Her laughing about it just adds insult to injury. Despite feeling a little triumphant right now, I can't but be even more disgusted by this.
Yes it does add insult to injury, for now.
Be patient and withdraw. She won't be laughing for long.
The less you care, the less you engage, the less you react the angrier she will get. The more she will act out.
When the divorce completes there won't be any laughter. It be a glaring failure on her part, that she lost control of you and the narrative.
Years from now when you are free and happy, on your own or with another woman at your side, she won't be laughing then either.
Survive each as it comes. The last laugh is yours she just doesn't know it yet.
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