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justabrokendream ( member #3075) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, September 19th, 2021
It appears OP has gone. Perhaps he will be back when he finds that the route he is going down is what many have tried...
Wanttobebetter ( member #72484) posted at 8:42 PM on Sunday, September 19th, 2021
Fear of the unknown is so powerful sometimes. Some are willing to eat that shit sandwich as it is so cliche to say; deal with the devil you know and it is at least familiar.
No judgement here though as one must choose the path they are comfortable with. Just sad to see someone is willing go down that path.
Good luck to the OP.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 9:19 PM on Sunday, September 19th, 2021
No one was more scared than me when I was facing Dday2 and D.
But I figured anything (or almost anything) is better than this.
Change is hard and scary and paralyzing sometimes. But it usually works out better in the end.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
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