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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 5:54 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2020
My wh is an Ass man. Not turned on by boobs. Which is good because I hate having guys stare at my boobs.
Was at a reptile expo many years ago with wh and another couple. I had on a v neck shirt that showed a little bit of cleavage. Not alot but enough to get the other guys full attention and get him in trouble with his SO for staring. I haven't worn a v neck since. I have bathing suits that are low cut but I have one that totally covers for going to the beach. Other ones are worn at home.
Breast feeding was torture, being hooked up to the breast pump humiliating, having a lactation specialist manhandle my breasts was weird.
Felt like a two legged cow with an udder on my chest.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Wintergarden ( member #70268) posted at 11:37 AM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020
Funny to see this topic as I was just having a conversation with a friend this morning, who is my body antithesis, and I've always said bras were designed by men because they never have to wear one.
They are the most uncomfortable item of clothing ever designed. In this day and age someone should be able to design one that is practical and comfortable or we all accept that it's just okay to not wear one whatever our shape.
BigBlueEyes ( member #71441) posted at 1:39 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020
I tried the stick on things...oh hell noooo, I nearly cried when I went to rip them off after placing it incorrectly 😢
Never EVER again.
No bra unless I’m out of the house,
however I am a pjs addict 😂 so I’m all for comfort
Me- BW, 47
Multi Dday's,
DB A's x 2 BFF
Multi ONS's, Online shit.
Serial cheat, Abuser,
D 18.02.20
Stay strong, just because it’s hard today, doesn’t mean that next week it won’t get easier!!
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 4:01 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020
thatbpguy- did you grow up oogling the Sears catalog?
OMG!!! How did you know?? 
[This message edited by thatbpguy at 10:06 AM, November 5th (Thursday)]
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 4:05 PM on Thursday, November 5th, 2020
So what do you think? Should women wear a bra when around other people when to them is is not actually serving a purpose other than existing?
The pig in me says 'ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!'
That said, I like "naturalness". I'm not a fan of makeup, bras, plastic surgery for cosmetic sake... We are what we are and I see no reason to be something else. Then again, if a woman feels the need to, that's fine.
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
CatsNTats ( member #66105) posted at 3:12 AM on Sunday, November 8th, 2020
I told my BF in my nursing program when all hell broke loose with COVID that if this was the end of the world I was never wearing a bra ever again. I made it a whole month without putting one on when the "shut down" happened. I think I broke down and put one on for going to work at the hospital finally. I don't wear them at home and don't wear them out if I don't have to. I'm a 32 B...isn't tiny, but isn't huge...so I let my bitches hang out. Haha.
Me:37 BW
Him:45 WH Deceased 10.20.19
Other D-Days: Feb 2016, August 2017, September 2018
If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then it's a duck.
nightowl1975 ( member #32212) posted at 9:57 AM on Sunday, November 8th, 2020
After nursing four kids, including a set of twins, let’s say the headlights are permanently stuck on bright. 😳😳 I had a partial lift and implants after I was done having babies and breastfeeding, so even at a 36 DD, I don’t need a bra for support, but that headlight issue...
So, I wear a super soft, comfy bra from Shapermint. No wires. It’s just enough to control the nipples for public appearances.
At home? I don’t wear a bra unless my 18 year old son has friends over or we have other males in the house (repairmen, husbands of friends of mine, that sort of thing).
Me: 44
Ex: 52
D Day: 4/2010
Divorced: 7/2010
Marriagesucks ( member #46828) posted at 7:53 PM on Sunday, November 8th, 2020
the headlights are permanently stuck on bright
HaHa! I'm losing the battle trying not to visualize. 
The greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist.
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