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The perils of O L D
Haven’t been on here for a while but thought I’d share this. First date - coffee - last Saturday, we got on really well, agreed we’d go out for supper, exchanged messages for a few days, then - nothing for the last 4 days! I appreciate that Coronavirus has put a stop to socialising but this does feel a bit like ghosting...TBH I am so weary of OLD that I am really not too bothered - but I’m beginning to think this man isn’t as single as he made himself out to be. Oh well, subscription has expired now anyway, self-isolation is my future! Bring it on!
devotedman posted 3/20/2020 13:28 PM
Her Majesty's Hermetically Sealed Hermits!
Sorry, couldn't resist. You guy does sound like he ghosted you, sorry.
devoted man - yeah but I think I probably dodged a bullet 
HalfTime2017 posted 3/24/2020 12:09 PM
Don't let one fool ruin it for you.
This is a time of unprecedented fear. Have you reached out to him about the current situation of anything?
Its not just online dating but dating in general. If you like the guy, just send him a message or two. If you think he has red flags then move on. But we do find ourselves in a weird time. Don't be too hard on yourself or him.
EvenKeel posted 3/25/2020 08:55 AM
Ugh - Corona is no excuse for lack of msg. If this is his level of attentiveness, then next him.
I suspect he is multi-dating (nothing wrong with that) and decided to pursue another (nothing wrong with that either). It is the 'poof' thing that is sucky.
At least have the decency to say something "Sorry - just don't think we are match but good luck...", or "Sorry, I decided to go exclusive with someone I was casually dating", etc.
Oh well - just shows he is not the one for you.
Onward my friend!