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Fenderguy ( member #61994) posted at 5:59 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

I am so very saddened to read this! I know I don't know any of you, but my heart is seriously broken for your family right now! When I realized you hadn't updated for awhile, I feared the worst. If you feel the need to reach out to a bunch of strangers on the internet for further advice and help, we're all still here for you.

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TimelessLoss ( member #55295) posted at 6:07 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

Praying for your family that you come to find a measure of healing and peace.

"You've got to learn to leave the table when love is no longer being served"

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Booyah ( member #60124) posted at 6:15 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

A1 so sorry to hear this.

Praying for you and you family.

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:36 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

Ah dammit all. I'm so very sorry to hear this. I'll be holding your family in my prayers.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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waitedwaytoolong ( member #51519) posted at 6:36 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

So So sorry to hear this.

I am the cliched husband whose wife had an affair with the electrician

Divorced

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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 6:44 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your girls in my prayers. I am praying you get peace in your lives.

BS Fwh

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KatieKat ( member #16690) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

I am so sorry... her timing only adds to the horror. Her choice, but you and your girls STILL HAVE EACH OTHER. Much love.

one of the lucky ones

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Drumstick ( member #55013) posted at 7:05 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

I’m so sorry, AO. My condolences to you, and your daughters.

Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passion, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence - John Adams

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overit62 ( member #55219) posted at 7:15 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

sorry to hear this sad news. you are in my prayers

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FreeAsABird ( new member #60089) posted at 7:27 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

My sincere condolences

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Dismayed2012 ( member #49151) posted at 7:30 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

Sorry to hear about your WW Ambi. I hope for the very best for you and yours. Never forget that this wasn't your fault. Take care of yourself and your family. God bless you.

Infidelity sucks. Freedom rocks.

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NoSelf ( member #46978) posted at 7:35 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

So sorry to read this. I lost my father to suicide at 12 years old, and one thing that helped my sister was survivors of suicide support groups. Even it not participating, being around people who have been through the same trauma and have navigated that path can help. And to see people who have made it through the hardest times.

No links here, but if you google “survivors of suicide” + your city/area there should be local results.

Sending good thoughts to you and your family.

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Georgyboy ( new member #46803) posted at 7:42 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

Ambi

I am so sorry to learn the sad news.

My deepest sympathy to you and your daughters.

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HardyRose ( member #55069) posted at 7:51 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

A1 I am so sorry for the pain that you and your DD’s are feeling. ((A1 and DD’s))

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Sanibelredfish ( member #56748) posted at 8:09 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

Sorry to read this news, A1. Your kids and you deserved better. The timing is... interesting too. I hope you all are able to heal from this tragedy eventually.

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Western ( member #46653) posted at 8:26 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

man, God bless you A1. You, your daughters and your wife's spirit are in my prayers.

I am sorry this world collapsed. Not your fault but now your burden.

Move forward, love your kids and take each day at a time.

Again, my thoughts and prayers

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Marz ( member #60895) posted at 8:50 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

I’m truly sorry to hear this.

Although it wasn’t your fault in any way I’m sure you’re grief stricken ag going through this.

Unfortunately there is nothing anyone can say to make this better.

Truly sorry man

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harrybrown ( member #59225) posted at 8:54 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

So sorry.

you and your family have been thru so much horror these past few months.

Hope you and your daughters are able to get some therapy to help with your losses.

hope for better, peaceful days ahead for you and your girls.

so sorry.

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cheesy ( new member #59410) posted at 9:03 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

A1. I said I would never post unless I could help someone. I'm sorry that nothing I can say will help but I am truly sorry and my thoughts & prayers go out to you and your family.

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M1965 ( member #57009) posted at 9:07 PM on Thursday, March 29th, 2018

I am so sorry to hear what has happened. You have all been through so much. Words seem so inadequate at a time like this. I will say a prayer for you, your wife, and your daughters tonight. The thoughts of everyone here are with you, A1.

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