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I would move the motorcycle. If he has no problem breaking into your house to get a dog for spite than he'll have no problem breaking into your garage for the motorcycle. Even if you can get it back you'll have to deal with the hassle of getting it back.

The last couple of days sound as if they were pretty hard on you.

Yes, these last two weeks have sucked. But this morning I woke up and felt a helluva light lighter. I have two more hurdles to get over with this guy...the house refi (not worried about that...he needs his name off, so he won't fuck with me on that) and he's supposed to give me half his tax return (he will be an asshole about that...but I have it written into the decree...so it will be a hassle but I'll get my way on that)

ps: Laughing my everloving ass off over this -

"I'm done trying to be nice to you."

Oooh... so THAT'S what he's been doing. Mmm hmm. Clearly.

I found this statement rather amusing as well. "Oh no, ex-shat, please don't stop being nice to me, whatever shall I do, however shall I continue to make my way through this dark, cruel, cold world without your kindness??!! I'll rush straight home and open the garage for you so you can get your hitch."

Well, he didn't list a hitch, so technically, even IF it was in there, you didn't have to give it to him anyway then!

^^True.

And if he showed up with the cops, I was seriously considering being that bitch.

He would have been furious that you had already BESMIRCHED his name with the county sheriff. (you didnt but in his tiny pea-brain

Yep, I know that is exactly what he thought. Also, he probably came to my place high (big time pot smoker, helps him stay calm ) So really, the last thing he wants is the cops around and I'll just let his imagination run with what I may or may not have told the police...

Now you need to enact "operation recover Mosley"

I don't know what's going to come of this. My two trump cards aren't quite panning out like I hoped. (I was hoping the breeder's contract was strong enough to take him back...but it doesn't look like that is the case.) But I do know that Mosley is tearing the shit out of their apt. Teslet is also becoming more vocal with me about his sadness that Mosley isn't with him...it's only a matter of time before he mentions something to his dad. And *maybe* when ex-shat realizes that he didn't list some of his possessions in the decree, he'll be willing to trade. It's a waiting game and I'm incredibly patient.

Thank you all for your support.

But I do know that Mosley is tearing the shit out of their apt.

Hold up...he is in an apt? Most apts that allow dogs...only allow dogs under 25 to 30 lbs...with a pet deposit.

Does his landlord know about Mosley?

I'm thinking as soon a Mosley tears up something of baby#2's... he will be exhiled.

Put all of his left-behind-stuff in a box, that way when Mosley is exhiled, you can make an offer and make the exchange BEFORE he has too much time to think about it.

I think you have handled the past few weeks admirably. Awesome work keeping ahead of him.

K

Move the motorcycle. See if a neighbor or anyone can store it for you.

What else could he want from the garage? Cuz he sure wanted to get in that garage. Just makes me wonder what else is in there.....

What else could he want from the garage? Cuz he sure wanted to get in that garage. Just makes me wonder what else is in there.....

Same thought going through my mind. My STBX was desperate to get into the garage to retrieve his stuff. So I went through the stuff in the garage & found the most horrifying of discoveries all over the place. No wonder he wanted in there!

@coastofsomewhere -- according to the landlord, he paid a very large deposit to keep the dog there...all 85 lbs of him. Of course, at the time ex-shat thought he was going to steal Lie-Lie who is much more calm (older and seasoned) and not destructive.

Mosley really only listened to me and even then if he got too bored was still prone to chewing on something.

I just went through that garage again and I can't find anything that he would want other than his motorcycle, a weight bench and set of weights, a couple of ladders and his saxophone...oh and a table that his mother gave him.

No hitch.

Maybe he thinks he left something in there. I think I will get a storage unit to store the remainder of the stuff until I can sell it. Especially since he knows I'm going to be out of town next week.

Tesla,

I didn't see this yesterday, so I will have to cheers you with a glass of wine tonight!!!

You did AWESOME!! Way to call the bluff on that asshole.

I truly hope you get Mosely back soon. That part really pisses me off.

P.S. And tell that moron that what he is looking for is actually called a receiver. The hitch is attached to the vehicle. The receiver (with the ball on it) goes in the hitch. The trailer goes on the ball. (He doesn't sound smart enough to own either a motorcycle OR a trailer, if you ask me.)

Chances are he'll show up with a new receiver with the wrong diameter ball on it and have to do a face palm.

Dumbass.

[This message edited by NoTriangles at 4:25 PM, December 17th (Monday)]

My XWH wanted in his garage really badly, too. I searched and under some plastic shelves he had 2 dvds' of porn... It was really grose stuff, not normal porn....

Well done, tesla!