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 BrokenRoad (original poster Member #15334) posted at 11:21 AM on Sunday, March 1st, 2015

Updated to here.

And to matthesax, that was very kind of you to try to make Lowlow feel better.

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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LuvsMeLuvsMeNot ( Member #44963) posted at 6:14 PM on Monday, March 2nd, 2015

February 22nd here

BW (Me) 59 WH (WHORE) 60 M-33 YRS D-Day #1 2/11/12-WH Says ONLY EA TT BS From WH For 3.5 YRS! D-Day #2 12/3/15-WH SAYS ALWAYS A PA SAME OW!OW/ExGf 59 Nasty Trailer TRASH Dumped WH 38 Yrs Ago

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globetrotter ( Member #46685) posted at 1:58 PM on Saturday, March 7th, 2015

April 20

D-Day: January 17, 2015
Me: 41
WH: 40
DS: 3
Friends for 27 years, married for 14
Blindsided by WH's confession of workplace affair while living abroad. DS and I are starting anew back home while WH continues to live in outer space.

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Didact ( Member #42867) posted at 3:00 AM on Wednesday, March 11th, 2015

September 20 for me. Will be 51 this next time.

No matter how painful, life either adapts or it dies.

BH (Me) 49
WW 48
Married 1985
D-Day Mar 19, 2014
1 year passionate EA/PA, ended by me on d-day.
Attempting to R

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Jomarion ( Member #43659) posted at 4:53 AM on Wednesday, March 11th, 2015

Mine is March 16. I will be 55! Holy Mackeral!

me:BGF, 54, American immigrant. one son. me and my ex get along great, the most amicable split imaginable!
him:WBF,43, Polish immigrant
together since 2006,
DDay:October28,2009,after his 3 teen kids push him to cheat with OW.
5 betrayed me

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sandrac ( Member #45208) posted at 4:45 AM on Saturday, March 14th, 2015

My birthday is today. 13 March.

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Rampage0409 ( Member #47087) posted at 4:11 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2015

February 20

Me: 33
WH: 36
OW1: Ho Worker
OW2: Another Ho Worker
DDay: 3/5/15
DDay 2: 2/14/17
Filed for D March 8, 2017
Divorced!
Married: 10years - Together: 17years
"Who ever said money can't buy happiness has never paid for a divorce!"

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SadieMae ( Member #42986) posted at 7:34 PM on Wednesday, March 18th, 2015

December 27th :)

Me: BW 40 on DDAY
Him: WH 40 on DDAY (FlawedBroken)
Together over half our lives.
D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020

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crushedinpa ( Member #46787) posted at 2:37 AM on Saturday, March 21st, 2015

Today March 20th for me.

Me 47: BS
Him 47: WS
M 22 yrs with 1 DD (age 17) and 13 year old twin DS
D-Day 1/28/2015 (1.5 mos. affair) EA/some PA (his TT story)
In R (I think)

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turtlehead ( New Member #45845) posted at 2:45 AM on Wednesday, March 25th, 2015

May 1 I'll be 37, my kids call me old and I believe them.

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Riskybusiness ( Member #43475) posted at 12:29 AM on Friday, March 27th, 2015

October 23

Me-42
Engaged 5/2017

Him-no longer matters
Married 22 years
Two DD-adults. DS-18, DD-14
DIVORCED

Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12

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mozi ( Member #47041) posted at 12:55 AM on Monday, March 30th, 2015

April 22!

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Tatika80 ( Member #45923) posted at 1:49 AM on Thursday, April 16th, 2015

July 20th :)

Me~ BS 32
Him~WF 35
Together~16yrs Engaged~6yrs
3 boys~12,9,2
D~Day~3rd Nov 14, ONS (so he says) with COW no exact date approx 4yrs ago (again, so he says)
Working on Reconciling (I'm still unsure on if I'm gong to stay or not, it's

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MrsZ ( New Member #47595) posted at 11:10 PM on Sunday, April 19th, 2015

My birthday is August 1, I will be 33 this year

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downtownblues ( New Member #45881) posted at 1:55 AM on Thursday, April 23rd, 2015

July 13th for me, not so sure that it is lucky though! Thanks

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BlueIris ( Member #47551) posted at 10:46 AM on Monday, April 27th, 2015

November 9

Dreading this year more than ever; will be a HUGE trigger day :(

BW | Dday 2-20-2015 + TT for several weeks
Reconciled

“The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off.”

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StrongHeart ( Member #45092) posted at 11:19 PM on Monday, April 27th, 2015

April 3! This year was 30, woohoo!

BS: 32; XWH: 34; DS: 3
DDay: 3/8/2014; D: 8/31/2015

"There is little growing in comfort and little comfort in growing"-unknown

"Don't take your emotional temperature in the ass of a psychopath."-unknown

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n1028 ( New Member #47355) posted at 5:53 PM on Friday, May 1st, 2015

July 9th

Me: B-GF
Him:W-EXBF
DDay- March 27, 2015

"Strangers become friends. Friends become lovers. Lovers become strangers. Strangers become friends once more, and over and over."

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 BrokenRoad (original poster Member #15334) posted at 1:09 AM on Monday, May 4th, 2015

Updated to here

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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Reflective ( Member #46262) posted at 10:05 PM on Tuesday, May 5th, 2015

May 5th...Oh, that ominous tug between remembrance of your start at life and thoughts of downplaying the date for different reasons- mainly due to aging:)

Whther other people are around to help you celebrate or not, loving yourself means you have your own "unique" situation..you have your own life's history that only you can uniquely relate to. And for whatever reason(s)people either do or do not join you in that celebration that special "you", take the time to be kind and loving to yourself. You deserve the same outpouring of love that you have given to others -even when no one else is around. Celebrate your heart and how good it has been to so many others. Celebrate your humanity and be proud of your contribution to so many others'lives and the happiness and joy of those unselfish gestures. You don't realize just how much you've done. Yes- you have done so and I am here to tell you that :)

Happy Birthday!

Humans have the capacity to treat others with kindness, respect and love. When we stop practicing that basic thinking, we become open to actions that may tear another's heart to shreds.

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