Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 7:30 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2026
The song that Katy Nichole sings has come to mind for me lately. It is in keeping with my personal spiritual tradition, although I respectfully acknowledge others may have different traditions.
"I speak the name of Jesus over you
In your hurting, in your sorrow
I will ask my God to move
I speak the name cause it’s all that I can do
In desperation, I’ll seek heaven
And pray this for you
I pray for your healing
That circumstances would change
I pray that the fear inside would flee
In Jesus name….
I pray this overs those of us in this thread who would desire this prayer. May we move from sorrow to healing. From fear to faith. And may we see circumstances change.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 6:28 AM on Tuesday, January 6th, 2026
Evio...that is amazing that you found that friend 
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Thank you for that passage...very nice 
! I often write how I see our M as a tapestry...so when I read your passage it made me smile! In our M tapestry there are so many different patterns and colors...from our anniversaries...the births of our children and now our grandchildren...beautiful colors in our M tapestry . There is a black thread in there as well...the 9 1/2 weeks that my H had his A followed by his confession on Dday...and our recovery before we got to R. IF I kept dwelling on the A...it would have kept that black thread winding through our tapestry...creating this big black blotch. I didn't WANT that...so I focused on the positive aspects of our M. NOW...that black thread is still in our tapestry...but it is so small compared to all of the MANY other aspects in our M !
Pippin...THANK YOU for keeping this thread alive for us ! God has surely BLESSED us by bringing you into our lives !!! I pray that God would please guide you as you write (((HUGS))).
Shehawk...very nice . I now have that song playing sweetly in my head...and I appreciate it so much !
Dear Lord, we come to You today with humble hearts and grateful souls. Please help guide us down the path each of us are on so that we can praise You and show everyone the LOVE that You have for all of us. Thank You God for healing us as we walk down our paths that lead toward You!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
