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feelinginthedark ( member #10933) posted at 2:09 PM on Wednesday, June 6th, 2007

bump thanks

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usedup ( member #11701) posted at 2:28 PM on Thursday, June 7th, 2007

posts: 15831   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2006   ·   location: found
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closertofine ( member #14662) posted at 10:34 PM on Friday, June 8th, 2007

I have a facebook, hotornot, and plentyoffish account. PM me if you need any help!

posts: 1486   ·   registered: May. 18th, 2007
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hurtbs ( member #10866) posted at 7:42 AM on Wednesday, June 20th, 2007

this one certainly needed a bump.. and perhaps an update?

Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single

posts: 15762   ·   registered: Jun. 1st, 2006   ·   location: So Cal
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TryingToBreathe ( member #14935) posted at 10:28 PM on Wednesday, June 20th, 2007

I just discovered this section of the board. Wish I'd had access to this a month ago.

Oh well, I'm sure going to use it NOW!!!

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mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 10:39 PM on Wednesday, June 20th, 2007

Make sure you check out the "Sticky" on the IT forum too. A sticky is any thread with a thumbtack icon next to it. It's the first thread on this (or any) forum.

Lots of helpful links there.

Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

posts: 13401   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2006   ·   location: The suburbs of hell
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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 5:00 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2007

I am on AFF too, so I can help anybody who needs something looked up there.

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

posts: 22643   ·   registered: Mar. 20th, 2007   ·   location: Houston
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 11:16 PM on Thursday, June 21st, 2007

updated - THANKS!

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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stillstinging ( member #14887) posted at 9:53 PM on Tuesday, June 26th, 2007

You can add me for classmates.


DDay #1 May 18. 2007 (email)
DDay #2 June 11 (proof of 2 PA)
8/13/07 DDay #3
Comfortably reconciling.

posts: 595   ·   registered: Jun. 5th, 2007
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 10:12 PM on Tuesday, June 26th, 2007

I did, thanks!

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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stillstinging ( member #14887) posted at 5:51 PM on Wednesday, June 27th, 2007

You can also add me for Drive by's in Nassau County, New York.

Have AMAZING bar resources on the South Shore. (if you're from here you'll know where that is).


DDay #1 May 18. 2007 (email)
DDay #2 June 11 (proof of 2 PA)
8/13/07 DDay #3
Comfortably reconciling.

posts: 595   ·   registered: Jun. 5th, 2007
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 6:05 PM on Wednesday, June 27th, 2007

That's great! Please let drowninginsorrow know and she'll include you on the Snooping list.

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 6:35 PM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007

bump

Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

posts: 13401   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2006   ·   location: The suburbs of hell
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mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 5:46 PM on Tuesday, July 17th, 2007

If you can offer any services you're willing to share with other members, please add to this list.

We have to look out for each other, you know!

Thanks RT for compiling this list!

[This message edited by mom of 2 at 11:46 AM, July 17th (Tuesday)]

Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

posts: 13401   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2006   ·   location: The suburbs of hell
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mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 11:23 PM on Saturday, July 28th, 2007

Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

posts: 13401   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2006   ·   location: The suburbs of hell
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iamsoblind ( member #15248) posted at 5:23 AM on Sunday, July 29th, 2007

BUMPITY BUMP

I keep having a wish bone where my back bone used to be ........ UPDATE my backbone is as firm as ever and I am back to being happy and being ME without the liar socialpath in my life it helps. Have a new home a new job and even a new man WOOOOOHOOOOO

posts: 224   ·   registered: Jul. 7th, 2007   ·   location: NY
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TrainerCarrie ( member #14851) posted at 5:29 AM on Sunday, July 29th, 2007

I travel for work every week. So I have access to a different phone number every night and week and for some areas I could even do drive bys. I go to Denver, CO, St. Louis, MO. Knoxville, TN, Nashville, TN, Birmingham, AL, Newtown, Danbury and Hartford, CT, Virginia Beach, VA, Atlanta, GA, New Orleans, LA, Greenville, SC, Hickory and Asheville, NC..assorted other places. Im always willing to help out my fellow SI'ers. I also have AOL, My Space and Match.com account my mother bought me...I dont use it for me but I wouldnt mind looking for someone else. Let me know if I can help.

Carrie

Sometimes giving up something you want is the kindest thing you can do for yourself.

Never, ever date your neighbor.

posts: 2820   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2007   ·   location: Almost Heaven...West Virginia.
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stillstinging ( member #14887) posted at 8:38 PM on Sunday, July 29th, 2007

Hi,

Add me for spooftell and phone calls.


DDay #1 May 18. 2007 (email)
DDay #2 June 11 (proof of 2 PA)
8/13/07 DDay #3
Comfortably reconciling.

posts: 595   ·   registered: Jun. 5th, 2007
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 4:56 PM on Monday, July 30th, 2007

Updated - THANK YOU!

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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psychowife ( member #9862) posted at 3:14 PM on Thursday, August 2nd, 2007

Add me for Ashley Madison searches.

posts: 355   ·   registered: Feb. 22nd, 2006
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