Topic is Sleeping.
TheAgonyOfIt ( member #39114) posted at 5:25 AM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
what is this thread about? i can't seem to find it. thanks!
Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.
Doubleblame ( member #44588) posted at 3:50 PM on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014
hurt forever
Me BS
Him WS
Together 14 years
DD #1: 5/18/2014
DD #2: 8/20/2014
DSD 20
Status: Think it becomes clearer every day, still not trusting
WTFH ( new member #49799) posted at 5:42 AM on Wednesday, June 1st, 2016
I would love to help with number 11 also. It has been unbelievable.
Married 28 yrs
Him 47
ME 47
3 grown children
childofcheater ( member #33887) posted at 12:52 AM on Friday, March 17th, 2017
I'd be willing to proofread. I'm also a BS and a child whose dad had an affair if you need any perspective there.
Me: 42 yo, him 41Married 19 years together 233 kids: DD15, DD12, DS9DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworkerStatus: in R, work in progress
childofcheater ( member #33887) posted at 12:59 AM on Friday, March 17th, 2017
I did not realize how old this thread was!
Me: 42 yo, him 41Married 19 years together 233 kids: DD15, DD12, DS9DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworkerStatus: in R, work in progress
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 7:52 PM on Saturday, March 18th, 2017
What about a conflict avoidant WS who Is regretful, yet can't / won't seem to do the work to help the relationship heal?
I have some personal experience here!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
JulieMarie ( member #60683) posted at 7:48 PM on Saturday, December 30th, 2017
This book needs to be written....OMG! Imagine all the people it could save!! It could be The Bible of Understanding Infidelity!
Me: 37 WW
Him: 44 BH
DDay 1: 05/09/2012
DDay 2: 09/09/2017
DS: 24,18,13,12
DD: 22
DG: 3
"She wears her strength and darkness equally well, the girl has always been half goddess, half hell"
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 9:09 PM on Monday, April 23rd, 2018
This thread is 12 yrs old? Has this book come out?
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
hopefulkate ( member #47752) posted at 2:13 PM on Wednesday, April 25th, 2018
Agreed! Did this happen?
Also - types of Affairs - this one is ALMOST ALWAYS IGNORED IN ALL BOOKS SO I WAS GOING TO WRITE MY OWN:
Re-enactment Affairs - when the Why is because of childhood sexual abuse. Ask me how i know...
The content is similar but different. The healing is similar but different.
1 in 5 books/sites may give a 'nod' to this type, but it accounts for up to 10% of A at least!!! In the I can relate forum we are on the 3rd string.
Yes, i have a bee in my bonnet 
Justincase ( member #59189) posted at 9:49 AM on Monday, April 30th, 2018
I think this should be unpinned. porcupine hasn't posted since 2007.
Watching and gathering, just in case...
Topic is Sleeping.
