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Hippo16 ( member #52440) posted at 3:27 AM on Sunday, January 23rd, 2022
I was going to suggest but
Unhinged ( member #47977)posted at 3:00 PM on Saturday, January 15th, 2022
"The Body Keeps Score; Brain, Mind and Body in the Healing of Trauma," by Bessel Van Der Kolk, is an excellent book. Though I haven't finished it yet, thus far I've learned quite a lot about just how the body responds to trauma and how to help yourself heal.
already has.
Dumb question: Why are you still with the woman?
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There's no troubled marriage that can't be made worse with adultery."For a person with integrity, there is no possibility of being unhappy enough in your marriage to have an affair, but not unhappy enough to ask for divorce."
StrugglingCJ (original poster member #72778) posted at 4:51 PM on Thursday, January 27th, 2022
Thank you everyone for responding. Yes my WW finally went NC not through her choice but by me and the AP'S new GF forcing the issue..
As far as I am aware NC has been maintained since then.
I got home about a week ago.. Feel really wiped.. And having to get used to a whole load of new meds. Luckily I think she is actually on board with things now.. That she cannot afford to cause me any unnecessary stress, and she is actually doing her best here.
As to why I am still with her... I still love her.. Despite everything.. And now looking to a future together.. Its up to her not to screw it up.
WW caught in EA May 17
DDay Mar 19 it was full PA
Struggling for R, but still trying.
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