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Divorce/Separation :
Ex is still blaming me 7 months later

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DanielJK ( member #75654) posted at 3:44 PM on Thursday, April 15th, 2021

The victim mentality amazes me.

Can they not hear themselves talk?

Thinks that my leaving the M did more damage than anything he did to me

Geez. It's all your fault that you had to leave the marriage

Hang in there. Truth is on your side.

BH 51
STBXWW 53
2 daughters, 14 and 16
Filed for divorce 12/23/2020

After a year of hell I finally moved out (5/26/2021).
Divorce still pending.

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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 3:25 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2021

I am truly sorry this is happening. I have personally experienced this. I remember a line from a child's movie "Buzz Light-year" that said something like "You think Zurg (the villain) is behind every cat up a tree. It was my experience that wh and his passe of affair supporting co abusers (I believe infidelity is severe abuse) thought/think I was responsible for every thing that wh did/does.

To that I say "good luck honey" (aps) or good luck wh's friends because you stand a good chance of becoming the next Zurg. Me? I want people in my life who take responsibility for their own actions and are genuinely sorry when they hurt others.....

I wish you peace and healing.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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