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guvensiz ( member #75858) posted at 12:43 PM on Tuesday, June 22nd, 2021
A relationship of only 6 months; you better run before it's too late and marriage, children, and a wasted life are involved.
He claims I'm the best thing he's ever had.
This is his luck. What matters is whether he's the best thing you've ever had. A cheating boyfriend; probably not.
lifestoshort ( member #18442) posted at 4:19 PM on Wednesday, June 23rd, 2021
someone who cheats in under 6 months is absolutely not worth trying with. he is love bombing you then hurting you. I will tell you what that gets you. my exh did this by month 5. I was engaged by month 6 and he had told me after he bought the ring that he cheated on a drunk night. after a lot of thought,yelling and crying I opted to stay. we got married and I had a baby a couple yrs later. on his 1st fathers day, I found out he cheated. and he had been white lying about dumb stuff for awhile. he went on to cheat with 7 more people (just that I could find- may have been more) in the reconciliation. so I divorced him. he hasnt seen the kids in 5 yrs.
My point is, if someone shows you who they are BELIEVE THEM. he is a cheater. he will not love you enough or properly and you certainly deserve better than this.
I always say, dont accept less then what you would want for your own kids.
Im 45. 1st H I left in 2001 after 3 kids. narcassist.
2nd exH had MANY affairs.FALSE R. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I got 100% custody. ex hasnt seen kids in 6 yrs.
2014 to now: dated highschool sweetheart. He cheated w 23 yr old & left.
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