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numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 6:52 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2021

TAG,

I qm going to share an uncomfortable truth. There is not much your WW can do now that will help you heal. Her words matching her actions help with trust, but healing is something we have to do on our own. No it is fair, it suck and feels like the world is against you.

You have a lot on your plate. Have you thought about IC for yourself? It was a small space that helped me while everything else was falling apart.

Please consider it.

Also see yor doc to get meds to help you theough this time. They have heard it all and would be able to give you something to help you sleep. Please take care of yourself. It really does help to practice self care.

Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Bring it, life. I am ready for you.

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 TreesAreGreen (original poster new member #79155) posted at 3:32 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2021

I just wanted to reply here today to say thanks to you all for your advice and support. I am grateful for the advice given however hard it has been to read at times. In hindsight I wish I had posted here before I started the whole detective bit on my own when I had that first gut feeling something wasn't right. It is amazing how similar some of the other stories are on these threads. I was blaming myself for a while thinking if only I had etc. Coming here made me see and think differently.

I should also have said I had IC myself but only for approx 6 weeks - it helped and I may go back.

I won't be posting regular updates for a while I need to focus on the welfare of my teams who are now going through their own personal tough situations, its certainly not goodbye mind you, be back soon I'm sure.

Take care all.

TAG

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Blandy ( member #79252) posted at 3:51 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2021

Take care of yourself, TAG. Good luck.

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numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 6:49 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2021

No worries. Take all the time you need. You have to look out for #1. Please call your IC. A lot of people depend others. It is not a negative to seek help when it is needed. It is just being human smile

Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Bring it, life. I am ready for you.

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