vengefulbiatch ( member #20473) posted at 2:56 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2008
Add me to myspace happy to help anyway I can I am also on yahoo messanger and myyearbook.com
"I Never Dreamed Home Would End Up Where I Don't Belong...I'm Moving On"
Me 37 BW
Him 37 WH
Divorced 2010... Tried to reconcile in 2011 currently separated
adamj ( member #20425) posted at 4:43 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2008
cool post... could almost be worth being sticky
You can throw me in Windows (any flavor at all), Email, Facebook, LinkedIn, MSN Messenger
computer man for bank by day.... scripting fiend by night
sorry, I can give you the basics on banking but can't risk violating confidentiality stuff by getting info.
Oh yeah... in the realm of windows I do all the browser history stuff... even IE history that has been removed can be retrieved. 
I have done a considerable amount of data recovery as well via both free apps online and full blown linux live cds that allow you to boot a computer without even touching the file system but to retrieve files.
[This message edited by adamj at 10:48 PM, August 7th (Thursday)]
BH: 32, WW: 32
DDay #1: 7/9/08, DDay #2: 8/2/08 - trickle truth, now divorced. (7/14/2010)
DS - 9, DD - 5
Last 3 years of my life have been spent avoiding sleep or having to deal with the demons when it is quiet.
Elecin ( member #16484) posted at 4:57 AM on Friday, August 8th, 2008
Add me to myspace, facebook, and AFF.
I also work in construction in NJ. I have NO idea how that might help but just throwing that out there.
k9lover1 ( member #8531) posted at 2:19 PM on Saturday, August 30th, 2008
D-Day was 10/9/05
He promised NC. He lied. After 4 chances, I kicked him out 1/05/06.
Since then I have survived cancer surgery and a heart attack.
Now he's sorry, but it's too late. He died an alcoholic on 9/5/17.
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 12:46 AM on Monday, September 29th, 2008
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 9:59 PM on Monday, September 29th, 2008
You guys are awesome! Thank you so much for offering to help. I'm updated to this point. Please PM me if I didn't get it correct and I'll fix it.
This thread and others are found in the sticky that says "Before you post your question please read." But sadly most do not. 
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, September 29th, 2008
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
crackers ( member #14677) posted at 10:50 PM on Tuesday, September 30th, 2008
I am not sure what I had for me to do before..but I just got a spooftel account and you can put me on that. also will do north east ohio area if able.
on hotmail, myspace, gmail, yahoo, classmates, aol, and flicker.
plus this is interesting but only had a few passwords work is a site called bug me not http://www.bugmenot.com/
people submit all kinds of passwords for these sites and many other sites to use any time.
one more site I found emails I'd been trying to get and had luck with is http://www.spokeo.com/
I found it by accident and it's pretty good at looking through all the myspace type sites for you.
edit - I signed up two weeks ago and just looked and at least 10 new sites to search have been added since that time, this might be a really awesome site very soon!
[This message edited by crackers at 4:56 PM, September 30th (Tuesday)]
2 OW's and he just keeps playing games
Fireball72 ( member #20152) posted at 3:04 AM on Friday, October 3rd, 2008
And up the thread goes. 
BS (me):44 (now 52) WS (him):42 (now 50)Married 3.5 years, together 5.5 D-Day #1 - 2/10/16 #2 - 2/20/16 #3 - 5/27/16 Divorced 6/12/17 One daughter, 9, the light of my life. Finally happy.
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 3:39 AM on Monday, October 20th, 2008
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
cards96 ( member #14962) posted at 6:50 PM on Saturday, October 25th, 2008
healingmyself ( member #19481) posted at 7:26 PM on Saturday, October 25th, 2008
I would be happy to do any propety search, phonecalls, take photos, letter delivery ect in MA
BS 40+
FWH 40+
LTA 7+
M 15 years
D-Day Jan 08
one beautiful gorgeous 10yr son
trying real hard to R!!!
I was so busy preparing for the tornado, that I didn't see it coming!!
jolene ( member #17993) posted at 4:00 PM on Sunday, November 2nd, 2008
Divorced 10/2013! Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya!
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 7:45 PM on Sunday, November 2nd, 2008
Twisted_angel ~ important PM for you!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
beajus ( member #21386) posted at 2:57 AM on Monday, November 3rd, 2008
In limited situations I can find out mortgage information.
I would need address city and state and names help too. This only applies to certain mortgage companies.
me BS 29 him WH 30
Together for 10 yrs
5 little boys 8,7,7,4,2
Dday 7-09-08
OC born 3-30-09
R- 8-1-08
Have OC 75% or more of the time
H works with OW
S. 7-30-09 NOT A related.
12-09 OW absconded with OC
1-2010 we filed for custody
JustWow ( member #19636) posted at 1:47 PM on Monday, November 3rd, 2008
got a 1 yr subscription to .emailfinderpro.com.
PM me if you want info run
ETA - I'll need your email if I find results. They don't seem to cut and paste into pm's, and I suck at typing!! Thanks - JW
ETA2 - I have gotten quite a few requests, so please be patient, I will respond. Its just tough to get too many in a row done with a one yr old pulling on the mouse cord!!
ETA3 - Can't seem to run anyone not in the US, I've emailed them about this, but as of now US only
[This message edited by JustWow at 2:54 PM, November 5th (Wednesday)]
BW - Reconciling
edited for typos (I always have to!)
IKnowNow ( member #12188) posted at 11:48 AM on Wednesday, November 5th, 2008
*bump*
Me - BW.
A MLC is not a reason, it's an excuse! - Me.
dead_but_alive ( member #20178) posted at 7:03 PM on Friday, November 14th, 2008
*bump* for newbies
Me - BW
Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.
dremalou ( member #204) posted at 12:10 AM on Monday, December 1st, 2008
Bump
BW/66 M32yrs,D41/gsons/19&17/gdau/9yr
WH/69 East Coast A since May 97/Deep Fog
OW/72 never married only "Does" married men
Where's the man I married?...
Pro 5:20-23...lost w/o God
Ps 119:49-80 PTL
IKnowNow ( member #12188) posted at 11:00 AM on Thursday, December 4th, 2008
IKnowNow - translations to Swedish
Me - BW.
A MLC is not a reason, it's an excuse! - Me.
