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I frankly think I can get the pole position here about the mere number.

I just found another one, I almost see no point sharing it, because it is getting ridiculous.

Since I shared this on I can relate forum, I will just copy it here too.

because I am feeling I am getting crazy:

What I find really unbelievable, is my wife's response.

"I do not remember this person, nor that I ever organized this trip. I am not even sure I ever wrote this e-mail, if you did not planted here"

For context, guy from Germany writing her "Love you - miss you - when are we going to see each other again - emails, when he says that he is coming to Poland to her city, she checks flights for him, and mentioned after confirming she will look for a hotel.

That's when my father was on the brink of death after a Heart attack, I was alone and crushed and she refused to come to me. But she was organizing a trip for this "I love you" guy, planning it to finish 4 days before she would fly in to me.

Dated 2 days before my birthday, just to add thatextra layer of "nice"

Note: Same bar of the previous Just Found Out, different guy.

The scary part is that she had probably a number of these kind of flirts over the years during our long distance relationship. I found several. She tells she absolutely does not know who this person is or to have ever written that stuff.

I ask myself, is it possible? She seems adamant, complete poker face that I would believe if I did not have the proof in my hand.

That's how convincing she is on this one.

What is going on here?

Because I am feeling I am literally losing my sanity.

I am almost starting to worry about if I did not lose contact with reality.
In addition to feeling the emotions that you all know too well.

[This message edited by BackfromtheStorm at 7:28 PM, Wednesday, March 4th]

Hi, I don't know your full story, but just based on this post, understand many cheaters will continue to lie even when there is undeniable proof.

IMO she is gaslighting you.

I do not have the credentials to diagnose anyone but my job put me in contact with every conceivable type of person soooo going out on a limb here. She sounds like a sociopath. They do exist. They do terrible damage to people around them because THEY DO NOT CARE! If she is this "out there" she has no business being married. You need to protect yourself emotionally from reading any more of these. They are harming you.

What she hopes to gain is a mystery but it would not be a surprise if she thinks of you in the same vein as a dependable vacuum cleaner. You keep her world neat and tidy for her. That’s about as much emotion as she can expend on anybody. Please understand this is all guesswork on my part but this appears never ending.