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MoonlightAndMagnolia (original poster new member #82774) posted at 10:33 PM on Wednesday, March 15th, 2023
Tomorrow should be a happy day - our 27th wedding anniversary. But, no WS had to go and ruin that by carrying on with women on OnlyFans & thirst traps on Instagram. I know I won't get the gift I really want - full disclosure of everything. He evades answering my questions. He doesn't seem to understand that I can't move forward without at least having the information to try and understand what he was up to those two or more months. Instead I have the cache of pictures and videos I found that lead me to scour his computer for all sites visited, reviews of bank accounts &credit card statements. So many unanswered questions.
His mother passed away last week. We went home to our hometown. He went a week ahead of me to be with her. He could not understand why one day I got uptight because he was not communicating with me. He does not have my trust to believe him that he is there - even in as awful of a situation as this.
It feels like Mother's Day does to me now...I wish I could just sleep through it. Ever since I lost my mother 4 years ago I hate Mother's Day. I'm a mother but no one really does anything for me. I am thinking this year I am going to take a weekend trip by myself - because I am the one person I can depend on. Go stay somewhere, take my time meandering through museums, eating where I want to eat, full control of the TV, etc.
Thank you for letting me vent.
DDay 11/12/22
Married since 3/1996
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 12:20 AM on Thursday, March 16th, 2023
MoonlightAndMagnolia, you have been heard.
Your anniversary should be joyful occasion but you are suffering.
Also your wh is giving you the gift of trickle truth.
Also, the WH mother passing that's bringing up bad memories of your mother passing.
That's a lot on your plate.
Please do you best to survive the day tomorrow.
Sending strength and hugs.
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 2:50 PM on Tuesday, March 21st, 2023
How did your day go Dear Lady?
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
MoonlightAndMagnolia (original poster new member #82774) posted at 3:25 PM on Tuesday, March 21st, 2023
Made it through the day. Our son was out of school on Spring Break & I had taken the day off because our travel plans had been cancelled due to being in NC the week before because my MIL passed away. We took him & his best friend for lunch. Then that evening when I invited WH to go on my evening walk with me he would not get off the phone so I snapped at him & told him to just go home if we wanted to talk on the phone. We didn't really speak to each other again until Saturday.
Thank you for asking. Just taking everything one day at a time & really working the 180 to make me a better me and able to survive whatever happens.
DDay 11/12/22
Married since 3/1996
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 3:57 PM on Tuesday, March 21st, 2023
Glad you survived it.
Hugs to you
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
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