Topic is Sleeping.
SadieMae (original poster member #42986) posted at 2:00 AM on Wednesday, January 20th, 2016
I was wondering if anyone else has read this book. If so, how did you apply the lesson to R? I can certainly see how it could apply to S/D.
If you haven't read it, it's a quick read about being open to changes in life.
Me: BW D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020
Yay! A new D-Day on 11/8/2023 WTAF
brokenpromises ( member #49668) posted at 2:39 AM on Wednesday, January 20th, 2016
Oh goodness, I read that in high school and had no memory of that at all until seeing this post! I barely remember much of it now, but I do remember it really giving 17 year old me some pause. I'll have to read this again and see what resonates with me now in this unexpected part of my life.
None of that really answered your question, sorry! I'm glad I saw this, though.
Me: BW (31)
Him: WH (30) (dontlosehope)
DDay 1: 8/10/15
DDay 2: 9/18/15
Married 2011
3 yr old daughter
Attempting R.
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"It always seems impossible until it's done." Nelson Mandela
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 9:33 PM on Saturday, January 23rd, 2016
brokenpromises, are you sure you're not thinking of "I Am the Cheese"? That's a fairly common HS literature assignment.
"Who Moved my Cheese?", iirc is sort of a self-help/motivational book that has a lot of application to the business world.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
SadieMae (original poster member #42986) posted at 10:28 PM on Saturday, January 23rd, 2016
There is also a Who Moved My Cheese for Kids, that I think is very good for children going through a divorce.
It's a quick read. I liked it. Not sure about how it applies to R, but it's got a good lesson / message.
Me: BW D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020
Yay! A new D-Day on 11/8/2023 WTAF
brokenpromises ( member #49668) posted at 4:17 PM on Thursday, January 28th, 2016
HFSSC no it was definitely Who Moved My Cheese! I had to read it in either Sociology or Psychology.
Me: BW (31)
Him: WH (30) (dontlosehope)
DDay 1: 8/10/15
DDay 2: 9/18/15
Married 2011
3 yr old daughter
Attempting R.
***
"It always seems impossible until it's done." Nelson Mandela
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 2:49 AM on Friday, January 29th, 2016
It's one of my all time favorite change management books 
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
still-living ( member #30434) posted at 11:42 AM on Sunday, January 31st, 2016
I started off 100% Scurry.
Through time I've evolved to be more like Hem, then Haw, still working on Sniff.
JohnA1 ( member #53128) posted at 9:32 PM on Monday, June 13th, 2016
Years ago and it is a great primer for life. Another way to say it is the 6 Ps of life. Proper planning prevents piss poor preformce. As to how it applys to marriage: always have an exit plan and post divorce life planned. Never allow yourself to experience "oh my god what will I do" moments.
If I could get every BS from day one to know your divorce laws, see an attorney, have a post divorce life planned, then duscuss reconcilation or the whats and whys that would be it.
Have an exWW
No children
No contact with ex since divorce.
Married 13 years
Divorced
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:24 PM on Friday, July 1st, 2016
HFSSC no it was definitely Who Moved My Cheese! I had to read it in either Sociology or Psychology.
Me too.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Topic is Sleeping.
